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Bleeds Nexopia


Age 20, Female
Posts: 16,550
 Uhm kay apparently they're "really close friends" and shes' like a 'sister' to him. And shes had like a really messed up life and is emotionally unstable right now. And her mom is fucking paying for him to drive down there and see her. And he said if i didnt want him to go he'd totally understand, but I dont' want to be the bitch and be like NO YOU CANT GO ~!~! because i know it will be brought up in the future that I was the one who wouldnt let him go see her when she was depressed or whatever. :rolleyes: ughhh. 
Wednesday August 20, 2008, 1:32 am Top
Great Nexopian


Age 25, Female
Posts: 59,567
 I think thats absolutely absurd, I CANT EVEN PUT INTO WORDS HOW MAD I WOULD BE.. Thats so uncalled for....
and if she's like a "sister" to him - they would have never dated. thats the lamest excuse ive ever heard.
and by the way - if youre afraid of the "consequences" of telling ur boyfriend he shouldnt be driving 6 hours to go see his ex than maybe you shouldnt be with him.... thats so wrong, relationships are about the two of YOU not the two of you plus the ex girlfriend. 
Wednesday August 20, 2008, 2:52 am Top
fascination.
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 AGREED with above. 
Wednesday August 20, 2008, 2:57 am Top
Bleeds Nexopia


Age 20, Female
Posts: 16,550
Originally posted by: MissDanyella
I think thats absolutely absurd, I CANT EVEN PUT INTO WORDS HOW MAD I WOULD BE.. Thats so uncalled for....
and if she's like a "sister" to him - they would have never dated. thats the lamest excuse ive ever heard.
and by the way - if youre afraid of the "consequences" of telling ur boyfriend he shouldnt be driving 6 hours to go see his ex than maybe you shouldnt be with him.... thats so wrong, relationships are about the two of YOU not the two of you plus the ex girlfriend.


Yeah he said when they were dating it was awkward and they knew they shouldnt be together like that or w/e. And I know I could easily tell him not to go, but part of me would feel bad..(for reasons unexplained). Ughh, I just dont even know what to do, this whole situations pisses me off/hurts me so much 
Wednesday August 20, 2008, 3:34 am Top
Great Nexopian


Age 25, Female
Posts: 59,567
 You can't feel bad for asking your boyfriend to not go visit his exgirlfriend, dont get me wrong Im totallyyyy not the jealous type or the type of girl to tell my boyfriend he can't do stuff but theres a line you can't cross in the relationship and if he goes, he's more than crossed it, that's so uncalled for.
I'm sorry if this sounds weird but I would compare it being just as bad as you "Falling asleep" next to your ex under the blankets... but you guys are "like brother and sister" I dont know, I just think those things are unacceptable in a relationship.Clearly, youre bothered by it but you're going to let him go anyways, but you have to ask yourself, whats worst.. her (who isnt even a valid part of your relationship) being upset at you that you didnt let him go or you being extremely insecure about your relationship while hes gone (Cause obviously your mind will be racing and youll probably get jealous) and more than likely causing tension in your relationship, maybe not right away but you will eventually be resentful... 
Wednesday August 20, 2008, 3:43 am Top
Bleeds Nexopia


Age 20, Female
Posts: 16,550
 Well, hes only going for the weekend. I really dont want him to go, and i really dont trust her ...even though i dont know her, which I know its bad to judge, but still. We got into a fight over it yesterday. He wanted me to make the decision of him going or not, and I was like ..well I want YOU to do what YOU think is right in the situation. He started getting pissed off because I just kept telling him to make the decision that he thought would be right, and so finally I was just like "You knwo what, just go". So...now .. i cant really take it back can I? And if so, how the hell would I approach it. 
Wednesday August 20, 2008, 3:54 am Top
Member


Age 19, Female
Posts: 472
 Well honesty is important in a relationship.
So if you tell him what your telling us, it should play out accordingly. 
Wednesday August 20, 2008, 4:05 am Top
Bleeds Nexopia


Age 20, Female
Posts: 16,550
 But he's telling me that nothing is going to happen..so in the same respect shouldn't I trust him too..? 
Wednesday August 20, 2008, 4:09 am Top
Member


Age 19, Female
Posts: 472
 True, but you should tell him that it's not him you don't trust, it's her. 
Wednesday August 20, 2008, 4:20 am Top
Junkie

Age 22, Female
Posts: 6,785
 wow i would be super pissed.. and im not controlling but i wouldnt let him go..
i dont care if it would seem controlling or not i wouldnt feel bad at all i would feel relieved knowing my boyfriend isnt driving 6 hours to see his ex gf. if hes saying he would understand if you didnt want him to go then tell him you dont. i think its kinda crazy that he would even expect you to be okay with it
i dont think it has anything to do with trust 
Wednesday August 20, 2008, 4:46 am Top
Bleeds Nexopia


Age 20, Female
Posts: 16,550
 Thanks guys. I appreciate this so much. It's just nice to talk to a bunch of girls about this :imslow: I'm kind of a wuss though, so I'm scared to bring it up again,. 
Wednesday August 20, 2008, 4:57 am Top
Great Nexopian


Age 20, Female
Posts: 63,258
 Sorry if im interrupting this convresation or anything,
but does anybody know any good cereals with oats in them?
:confused:
its been bugging me lol 
Wednesday August 20, 2008, 5:06 am Top
Veteran


Age 21, Female
Posts: 1,564
 Honey Bunches of Oats with Vanilla Clusters =)
I sampled them once and I thought they were pretty good.

Seven Varieties: Honey Roasted, Almond, Strawberry, Peach, Cinnamon, Vanilla, and Chocolate. 
Wednesday August 20, 2008, 5:10 am Top
Great Nexopian


Age 20, Female
Posts: 63,258
 Oh, duh!
i forgot about that cereal haha.
thank you ^^ 
Wednesday August 20, 2008, 5:17 am Top
Veteran


Age 21, Female
Posts: 1,564
 Mhm, don't worry I had to sample it for 5 frikkin hours so it easily came to mind :P 
Wednesday August 20, 2008, 5:21 am Top
Bleeds Nexopia


Age 20, Female
Posts: 23,211
 Whaat?
You had to eat it for 5 hours? That must be horrible 
Wednesday August 20, 2008, 6:36 am Top
Veteran


Age 21, Female
Posts: 1,564
 Lol nooo I had to sample it to other people...
but I ate most of it :shifty:
I was hungry and no one was taking any samples XD 
Wednesday August 20, 2008, 7:06 am Top
Bleeds Nexopia


Age 21, Female
Posts: 10,554
Originally posted by: ~Taintedlove
Uhm kay apparently they're "really close friends" and shes' like a 'sister' to him. And shes had like a really messed up life and is emotionally unstable right now. And her mom is fucking paying for him to drive down there and see her. And he said if i didnt want him to go he'd totally understand, but I dont' want to be the bitch and be like NO YOU CANT GO ~!~! because i know it will be brought up in the future that I was the one who wouldnt let him go see her when she was depressed or whatever. :rolleyes: ughhh.


I would not stop him from going..okay thats a lie i would..but another option is going with him. then you can see everything thats going on.  
Wednesday August 20, 2008, 6:53 pm Top
Bleeds Nexopia


Age 20, Female
Posts: 16,550
Originally posted by: SilentxTears
Originally posted by: ~Taintedlove
Uhm kay apparently they're "really close friends" and shes' like a 'sister' to him. And shes had like a really messed up life and is emotionally unstable right now. And her mom is fucking paying for him to drive down there and see her. And he said if i didnt want him to go he'd totally understand, but I dont' want to be the bitch and be like NO YOU CANT GO ~!~! because i know it will be brought up in the future that I was the one who wouldnt let him go see her when she was depressed or whatever. :rolleyes: ughhh.


I would not stop him from going..okay thats a lie i would..but another option is going with him. then you can see everything thats going on.




Our whole relationship is long distance. He lives in alberta, and I live in BC. He came out and visited me for two weeks in summer, it was honestly the best two weeks of my life. But with this whole situation, he's been telling me nothing will happen ,and that they wont even be alone together, there's other friends he knows up there that he wants to have a chance to see before they go away to college. He's going away on the long weekend...so it's kind of too late to stop him... I feel a bit better about the situation knowing he wont be alone with her, but still... 
Wednesday August 20, 2008, 7:55 pm Top
Member

Age 23, Female
 (((I don't want to iterrupt this convo ppl are having but I have a question lol. I'm too intimidated to ask it in any other forum cause I know you girls are quite nice. I rarely post here but I read quite a bit and I know ppl are starting to dislike off topic threads so I thought I'd try to ask something in here.

Does anyone know if you can put pictures on a CD and then put them in your dvd player to see them? Or even a DVD that has pictures put onto it?
I know you can put pics on them but will you be able to see them on a TV if you insert them?

Haha, I know it's totally random, thanks though.)))) 
Wednesday August 20, 2008, 11:13 pm Top
Regular

Age 19, Female
 idk, maybe.
or maybe on a dvd cd 
Wednesday August 20, 2008, 11:18 pm Top
Great Nexopian


Age 25, Female
Posts: 59,567
 Ive put pictures on a disc before and played them on my dvd player!!! 
Thursday August 21, 2008, 1:34 am Top
Addict

Age 25, Female
Posts: 2,546
 Does anybody use Rogers as their wireless provider?
If so.. do you notice that their website is complete crap?!
I'm getting soooo angry at it.. it seems either it just won't load anything and tell me there's errors.. or my balance due is unavailable!!
I guess they don't want their money if I can't pay my bill... 
Thursday August 21, 2008, 7:24 am Top
Bleeds Nexopia


Age 20, Female
Posts: 23,211
 I do use rogers, but I've never used it to pay the bill, my mom does that :shifty: 
Thursday August 21, 2008, 8:48 am Top
angelfate
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Originally posted by: B-randi
Does anybody use Rogers as their wireless provider?
If so.. do you notice that their website is complete crap?!
I'm getting soooo angry at it.. it seems either it just won't load anything and tell me there's errors.. or my balance due is unavailable!!
I guess they don't want their money if I can't pay my bill...


yeah their website is horrible.
2 months ago i couldnt get to my bill so i just paid it (over the phone) without seeing it.

then the month after, there were none of my bills listed and when i called they said that i would get an email when it was ready.

so i forgot about it (because i got no email) and then i checked my account this month and i had double the bills to pay. surprise surprise. their website is crap and i've complained before and they don't caaare. :rolleyes: so dumb! 
Thursday August 21, 2008, 5:23 pm Top
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