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Aloof [A]: He seems very independently-minded and therefore might assert some substantial autonomy from you in some aspects of his life. This is someone who’s willing to share friends and start to connect with your family, but you might expect conflicts between your work and daily life schedules to limit the amount of free time you have together. This is someone that can provide an exciting love life, but creating a fulfilling, joint social life will be more of a challenge with this person.

Be aware that an aloof love interest often causes women to break up for reasons related to disagreements over him not being emotionally available and open with her. Therefore, as the relationship progresses it’s crucial to explore what makes him feel safe enough to be more open and sharing.

Buoyant : He seems to have a great capacity for vitality, ambition and optimism. This is someone who seems to be strongly centered, as opposed to seeking a relationship out of desperation, poor self-esteem or convenience. His positive outlook and giving demeanor can be a very healthy influence. He has the potential to come across as extremely supportive, reassuring and nurturing, rather than making you feel inadequate or fostering negative thinking.

Indifferent : He seems to have values and perspectives that could be incompatible with yours. You can anticipate experiencing this in the way he treats himself and relates to others. For example, you shouldn’t be surprised if he doesn’t focus on healthy living. His ambivalence also might make you feel very uncomfortable – never knowing for sure how he truly feels about any given issue. Further, some behaviors can mark him as being downright superficial, dismissive and even careless. You could be embarrassed to have someone who’s extremely indifferent being around your friends or family for extended periods of time.

Be aware that an indifferent love interest often causes women to breakup for reasons related to conflicts about his insensitivity and inconsiderateness. Therefore, as the relationship progresses it’s crucial to explore whether you can deflect his selfishness and to what extent rely on him to meet your needs.

Guarded [G]: He seems expressive with physical affection, generally speaking. You can also anticipate that he’ll willingly share his views and feelings – especially when he feels a lack of support from his social circle (family, friends and coworkers). But, it’s probably more difficult for him to sustain deeper levels of reciprocal communication. In other words, he may very well disappoint you when it comes to talking about your own thoughts, feelings and concerns. Because of this, you may not always feel like a priority around him. Furthermore, there’s a risk for becoming an emotional “crutch” to someone like this.

Be aware that a guarded love interest often causes women to breakup for reasons related to feeling ignored or that her partner is disconnected and unconcerned with her needs. This can also spur doubts about his honesty and suitability for a committed relationship. Therefore, as the relationship progresses it’s crucial to explore under what circumstances he’s most communicative and affectionate so you can help to ensure your needs will be heard and met

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So when i thought i would finaly give you up and be able to move on and not think bout you or the things that you did.
Yet everytime my phone rings its you.
Just to hear your voice makes me wanna believe that things are okay.
That what you did was nothing but a bad dream.
Than you mention those words.
Lets go to the bar hunnie i promise nothing bad well happen this time i'll prevent it.
You promised me everything that you possibley could.
But none of it meant anything to me.
Not a single word.
So i know sitting here wondering wethier i should believe your lies.
Or should i brush them off and find another fifth wonder to make me smile for a couple of day's.
I dont know what it is about you but you make me a better person someone that believes in the same fears and hopes that i do.
One that promised me he'd take it all away.
And the day is still to come.
I keep hoping that you'll change into a very trustworthy person who wants me and not the girl sitting next to me as you rub my leg and say baby your all i want.
Even thought i know it'll never happen it still puts hope in my days knowing maybe i'll find someone that'll be the spliting image of you.
But days pass and the constent text messages and phone calls proccede.
We talk for hours and make it seem like everything is okay for one more day.
Than the next you act werid again brushing me off like i was dirt.
But hunnie im more than that!.I need trust and the securtiy ..

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Will i can't believe your gone already just that Saturday you were calling me and texting me just to see how work was going And that you missed and loved me.
Just like everyone said at your memorial He did anything in his power to make someone happy.And will you did that for me.Even days that i would scream bitch rant and cry over something stupid.
You were always the one saying its okay babe i love you.And im sure a few others know exactly what i mean.You had a way to make everything okay.You were the greatest thing that has happened to me and you'll never be missed that i promise you.

You touched my world like noone could and for you im nothing less than thankfull.
I just never thought I'd be saying goodbyes an soon your funneral.When in a couple months we promised that we'd be partying for your 18th birthday Not the 8th of july.

Its just not right but i know your up there happier as can be and still watching us all over and still telling us the right things.You may not be here physicaly but boy you were a blast even if you cant drink ha! And for all those people that talk smack bout how long we've known him its not the matter of days its what he did for us.Its just you didnt have enough pride to realize itbut miss yaa buddy[/color]<33[/size]

If I had my life to do over,
I'd have chosen you to be my dad
once more.
Even if it meant losing you again,
It's worth all the tears in the
world.
You were my sunshine when skies
were gray.
I loved you and honored you;
You took all my tears away.
I was happy to be with you,
Proud to be your little girl.
Sometimes we would argue,
But to me you meant the world.
Your love was always pure;
You treated me as your own.
Your time seemed all too short and
I feel so alone.
What can I take from this?
My heart is completely crushed.
But nothing loved is ever lost -
And you are loved so much.

I try to pick my feet up from where i last left them but its so hard when your on my consience saying no baby this way.
How am i to deal living without you if i know your still near in arms reach.
You say you cant make up your mind your not ready to start something you cant finsh.
We've tryed to make it so many times yet each time i failed to leave with my heart.
i left it beating at full speed at your feet.and as you picked it up just to poke and grope it as you pleased.
it hurt me so much more.Yet when the pokes and gropping went away it made me realize that i missed you.
But i clung on hoping that there was more.
I had very little strength left in me even to breath.
Yet i found enough to life up my head and take one short breath.
And said "baby please"

Yooo Thats only pridee =D

;sweet-Cheeks;<3.-Bitches im bored lets make a party happen in the dark =) says:
Travis...says:Yess ashhton ur soo hott **drools**
Travis... says:
yea u are y ou make me hot in the pants!!!
Travis... says:
haha

^^that is the most sexxiest convo ever man dont it make u creme in ur pants?..<333

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