My name is Adrian Ades.
I am a 19-year old, with big goals, and new to Edson, again. I moved to the big city a month ago, and I am finally getting on my feet, as I rent a basement suite with my Sister, and her baby. I plan on going to College, for my Journalism, English, and Psychology Major's when I find the time, and the money. I'm usually on something interactive, either my phone, Facebook, Nex, MSN, Skype, or Xbox Live, so don't be afraid to ask for my contact info. I am currently single, and I would rather be in a relationship, but being alone allows you time to find yourself, and more importantly, someone that compliments your style. I have played soccer for 15 years, and my dream is to play soccer for a living. I also love Ping Pong, tennis, badminton, football, baseball, running, hurdles, and basketball. I would have played hockey for my life, if I practiced skating. I follow hockey closely, and I cheer for the Redwings <3 I love Quiksilver, and Puma, and try to fill my closet will mainly those two brands. I am an animal lover, and I think an animal is just as important as a child, and will bring the same joy. I am very honest, and love meeting new people. Not many people will read this all, so if anyone knew my middle name was Robert, and told me they knew, it would prove that they can concetrate for a minute or two.
Society is a sick, demented place. Social standards, stereotyping, and prejudice really hinder every relationships chances. All the jock's turning away the frigid ladies. All the cheerleaders steering clear of the smart boys. All the badasses using the good girls. All the floozies getting around the modest men. A relationship's goal is to last as long as possible, and not strictly meaning in bed. Anything can happen, so instead of saying no, say yes. Love is closer than you think <3
No, I do not ask for nudes, cheat, lie, or steal. I have done all of those in the past, and I have lost alot because of it. Love is a testiment of feelings, not of time. A bond, where two people work together, for eachother, no matter what. I know everything has an expiration date, but I am willing to have this one be "till death do us part". Marriage? No, staying with her until we can no longer be humanly together.
If you actually read all of this, think for a second. Who was that one person who walked away from you, and you think about them everyday?Who is that one person who was always close to you, but never had the chance? Now, think about who you are with, and ask yourself, if you are truly happy with them. If you are, never let go. Remind him/her that they are amazing, and they are an integral part to your life. Because, when someone tells you that, it registers in your heart, that yes, someone does feel the same way. Love is not to be taken for granted, and whenever you find it, make your goal, forever.
The truth is key, and if you want to know a few of my secrets, I will be glad to tell you:
First up, Apart from my job, and my family, I had everything I could ask for. At school, I was doing good, and sports, I was striving like usual, and my relationship was amazing. Then, I had cheated on my girlfriend, not once, but multiple times throughout our relationship. Not only that, but I was extremely jealous, and even though I blame guys for making me jealous, I was afraid to lose someone as amazing as her. I put down her friends, I held her back from her true potential, and even worst, she supported my financial wants throughought our relationship. Mentally, I am not over her. I think about scenario's where I would have been a good boyfriend, had a job, loyal, trusting, etc, then maybe her and I would still be together. Did I need to lose her to learn my lesson? No, because I should have known the differance before, and should have treated her how she deserves to be treated; Like gold. I don't talk to her, and I saw her the other day, and she was happy, with her boyfriend, and that made me happy. I can say that, as much as it hurts to see her with somebody else, and see what I lost through my selfish endeavors, that she has found somebody that deserves her.
Second, and most recently, I was in trouble with the law. Now, the corporation will not be named, nor should it, but I was caught stealing from a company. It was a great amount, for which I shall repay. You may look at me like a criminal, and I can't blame you, for I would call myself that as well. I do know why I did it, though. You ever go out, and pay for the whole dinner, of four friends, and just not worry what the bill is? Well, I liked being able to have money, for whatever case arose. I am still wrong, no matter which way I spin it, and I accept that.
Now that you know more about me, let's talk about me again. I have recently engaged in a relationship with a girl who I am very fond of. Now, we have had a thing for a few weeks, we have only been together for about a week now. With that said, I would still love to engage in semi-intelligent conversations on this sight, and whoever messages me, will surely get a response. I am not a horn-dog, and I really enjoy meeting new people who can keep a conversation going. I don't care if you have a boyfriend, girlfriend, or are alone, I just want a conversation.


