1. Open doors, whether it be to a building or a car, that's just a given.

2. A man should tolerate the occassional chick flick (or musical, or opera, or ballet.. whatever her preference is) without bitching about it! (because the guy may just like it).

3. Talk! The strong & silent bit goes from intriguing to boring quite fast.

4. Find out what her favorite flower is & buy them for her randomly. Good rule of thumb: a single rose says more than dozens of anything else.(I encourage the women to not allow a guy to "prove himself worthy" through gifts and flowers and such. Trust is a precious thing and it should take a good chunk of time before he gains it back in your heart).

5. If you miss her, or love her, TELL HER! Even your friends like to hear it every now & again.

6. Remember: the best gifts you can give are usually free of cost.

7. Leave a note (or send a message) just to say "hi".

8. Ask her questions about herself.

9. Dress nice every once & a while. Any girl likes to see her brother/friend/boyfriend/etc. in a well-ironed button up with some nice slacks.

10. Tolerate small children as best you can. Meaning, put up with the things that can get annoying. They're children after all. Show them love and care, teach them how to become a better man than you. (You were once extremely irritating. Get over the obnoxious kids and enjoy getting down to their level - not "for her," but for the good of yourself and others).

11. Learn to dance! There is nothing sexier than a man that can dance really well. If God did not bless you with the grace of Fred Astaire, at least put forth the effort, it will be greatly appreciated. Always slow dance (even if its just like you danced in middle school). Also men, sing to a lady. Even in you're terrible, suck it up! They love to listen to it and will not care what you sound like. It's the thought that counts on this one. Unless you're just downright terrible, nothing sexy about that.

12. Kiss her on the forehead.

13. When she's sick, stay up with her. If you can cook (which is always a plus), make her some soup. If you can't cook, there's Campbell's soup at hand for you.

14. Pretend to throw her in the pool (or fountain/pond). She'll fight you, but seccretly she loves it. If you really do throw her in, you better jump in yourself. **NOTE** There are some women who just hate this, so you had better do two things: 1) Never allow your buddies be a part of it if you're unsure of how she feels about getting thrown in and 2) You had better know how she feels about it!

15. Hold her hand while you talk, drive, or just for the hell of it.

16. Look in her eyes, not her chest!

17. Stupid jokes = awkwardly adorable moments.

18. Tickle her, tease her, let her tease you back with out getting all bent out of shape about it

19. Don't call her hot, call her beautiful because that's what she is.

20. Offer her your jacket/sweatshirt. (Note: you may not see that particular item of clothing for a while, if ever again).

21. Don't be too proud to apologize.

22. It's not stalking to watch her sleep if you fall asleep watching a movie. It is stalking to watch her sleep if you're standing outside her window with night vision goggles.

23. When she feels at her worst, tell her she looks her best.

24. If you're trying to get more than friendship out of the relationship, take it slow.

25. Because you're a guy doesn't mean you are completley incapable of calling when you say you will; it just means you are highly incapable of it. There are few acceptable answers to, "Why didn't you call?" & being male is not one of them.

26. Don't check out other girls in front of your girl friends/sisters/mother, unless you are sincere when you later ask them if you think she could introduce the two of you for more reason than you "want to get some". Pull this in front of your girlfriend/fiancee/wife, she has every right to clock you in the jaw.

27. Guys - Always offer to pay for the date. No matter how expensive it gets, especially if YOU asked HER on the date. (However, a lady can pay for the date now and then. But at least offer to pay initially and be ready to back it up).

28. Always do everything in your power to keep her as happy as you can. And cheer her up in any way possible.

29. When walking on the sidewalk, always walk on the outside near traffic.

30. At least do everything in your power to keep cursing to a minimum while around her. If you can, cut it out period while around her, or cut it out of your vocabulary. Women don't want to hear it, guys don't care about it, adults don't want to hear it, it doesn't impress employers, and you sure won't want your children or someone else to hear it!

31. Sometimes you have to take the initiative. Don't always wait for her to come to you, because if that's how it always is you're going to lose her.

32. If any lady is walking alone to her car in a dark parking lot/garage, or is carrying a heavy load, always offer to help walk her to her destination and carry things, if not the entire load. **This may work a lot better and come off non-stalkerish if you at least know the girl you're trying to help.

33. If a woman says no, let that be her final answer. Do not pressure or force her in any way. Don't make her give in to something she doesn't want to do.

34. Always be honest with her. No woman wants or likes a dishonest man. If you can't be honest with her she can't trust you, and shows you don't trust her enough to be honest. Trust, honesty and integrity are just as an integral part of a relationship and just as important as love.

35. A man should always genuinely listen to women; no matter how boring or busy the man is, actively listening to the woman will keep him from pain [and bring the man and woman closer together]. This works best, of course, when both the man and the woman actively and equally engage in conversation (this includes listening). For the ladies reading this, please talk - always talk - especially if you are having problems with the relationship and to also avoid making bigger problems.

36. Dont call her babe, call her hunny, sweetheart, baby but anything but babe. It shows that you are comming out with a bad habit from the past.

(x) smoked a cigar
(x) made out with a member of the same sex
( ) crashed a friend's car
( ) stolen a car
(x) gone tanning
(x) skipped school (classes)
( ) slept with a co-worker
( ) slept with more than 15 people
(x) been called a slut
( ) had a one night stand
( ) slept with someone you don't even know their name
(x) seen someone die
(x) shoplifted
(x) danced on a table
( ) left your heart in anther contry
( ) been fired
(x) been in a fist fight
(x) snuck out of your parent's house
(x) had feelings for someone who didn't have them back
( ) had sex with an african american
( ) been arrested
(x) gone on a blind date
( ) had a crush on a teacher
(x) been to Canada
( ) been to Mexico ( going aug!!! )
( ) been on a plane
( ) thrown up in a bar
( ) purposely set a part of yourself on fire
(x) eaten Sushi
(x) hated someone SO much
(x) been snowboarding
( ) been moshing at a concert
(x) taken painkillers
( ) done drugs
(x) love someone or miss someone
(x) laid on your back and watched cloud shapes go by
(x) questioned your heart
( ) been obsessed with post-it notes
(x) squished barefoot through the mud
(x) been lost
( ) been to the opposite side of the country
(x) swam in the ocean
(x) felt like dying
( ) ate a bug
(x) cried yourself to sleep
(x) played cops and robbers
(x) recently colored with crayons/colored pencils/markers
(x) paid for a meal with only coins...
(x) done something you told yourself you wouldn't
(x) made prank phone calls
(x) laughed until some kind of beverage came out of your nose
(x) caught a snowflake on your tongue
(x) danced in the rain
(x) couldnt breath
(x) written a letter to Santa Claus
(x) been kissed under a mistletoe
(x) watched the sun set with someone you care about
(x) blown bubbles
(x) played an arcade racing game and won
(x) made a bonfire on the beach
( ) crashed a party
(x) gone roller skating
(x) had a wish come true
(x) slid down a firemans pole(when i was 6)
( ) humped a monkey
( ) worn pearls
( ) jumped off a bridge
(X) screamed penis in class(YESSSS)
( ) been stung by a jelly fish
( ) screamed rape at school
( ) ate dog/cat food
( ) told a complete stranger you love them
(x) kissed a mirror/window
(x) sang in the shower
(x) have a little black dress
(x) had a dream that you married someone
(x) glued your hand to something
(x) read all the harry potter books
(x) got your tongue stuck to a flag pole/light post
( ) kissed a fish
(x) worn the opposite sexes clothes
( ) been a cheerleader
(x) sat on a roof top
( ) been to a rave
(x) screamed at the top of your lungs
(x) done a one-handed cartwheel(tried)
(x) talked on the phone for more than 6 hours
(x) stayed up all night
(x) picked and ate an apple
(x) climbed a tree
(x) thrown pennys at hookers(only matt haha)
( ) been to more then 3 concerts
( ) had a tree house
(x) are scared to watch scary movies alone
(x) believe in ghosts
(x) have more then 5 pairs of shoes
(x) worn a really ugly outfit to school just to see what others say(not to see what people would say, thats what i would wear in middle school and elementary.
( ) gone streaking
(x) played ding-dong-ditch
(x) been pushed into a pool with all your clothes on...
(x) been to told you're hot by a complete stranger
(x) broken a bone
(x) been easily amused...
(x) caught a fish then ate it
(x) been so hammerd you couldnt remeber your nights events
(x) caught a butterfly
(x) laughed so hard you cried
(x) cried so hard you laughed
(x) eaten a hole bag of popcorn to yourself
( ) mooned/flashed someone
(x) had someone moon/flash you
( ) cheated on a test
( ) had a Britney Spears CD
(x) forgotten someone's name
(x) slept naked
(x) french braided someone's hair(or tried to lol mia)
( ) gone skinnydipping
(x) eaten moose/ deerd
(x) been heartbroken
(x) worn pajamas for 2 days straight
( ) smoked weed
(x) gotten pissed drunk
( ) drank so much you puked
( ) been to Japan
( ) played mailbox baseball
(x) ridden in a taxi
(x) been dumped
(x) kicked someone's ass
(x) ever had a crush on someone of the same sex
( ) ever dated someone of the same sex
( ) made out with a stranger
( ) stole something from my job
( ) celebrated new years in time square
(x) lied to a friend
( ) celebrated mardi-gras in new orleans
( ) been to Europe
(x) had sex
( ) been to Africa
(x) slapped someone I loved
( ) Driven over 400 miles to attend a show/festival/fetish ball
( ) Met someone in person from the internet
( ) had real feelings for someone you knew only online
(x) been in an abusive relationship
(x) taken painkillers when you didn't need them(yea just for the effect of them)
(x) fallen asleep at work/school
( ) used a fake id
(x) watched the sun set
(x) had someone else scratch your ass for you
(x) felt an earthquake
(x) touched a snake.
(x) slept beneath the stars
( ) ridden on a camel
( ) climbed a mountain
(x) played clue
(x) had a sleepover
(x) been tickled
( ) seen a UFO
(x) told a lie
(x) been robbed
(x) been fishing
( ) snuck into a movie
( ) consulted a psychic
( ) won a contest
(x) been to a zoo
()been suspended from school
(x) been in a car accident
( ) had braces
(x) eaten a whole pint of ice cream in one night
(x) had a deja vu
(x) touched a starfish
(x) hated the way you look
( ) jousted/sword fought/jedi light thingys
( ) witnessed a crime
( ) pole danced
( ) met anyone famous
(x) been to the circus
( ) been to jail
( ) laughed during a sad scene in a movie/tv show
(x) played with an etch a sketch
( ) eaten caviar
(x) gone horse back riding
(x) couldnt sleep
(x) had a song stuck in your head
(x) hated your computer
(x) owned a pet
( ) made a banana-split
(x) been lost
( ) stepped on a nail so that it went into your foot
(x) made homemade ice cream
(x) actually enjoyed your classes
(x) used a magic 8 ball
(x) seen a moose up close
(x) sung karaoke( at mias 17th and 18th b-day lol)
(x) tripped up or down the stairs
( ) had a crush on a family member
(x) made a mud pie
( ) seen a broadway show on broadway
( ) cut down a christmas tree
( ) smoked a cigarette
( ) been skiing
(x) made a snow angel
(x) had a tea party
(x) flown a kite
(x) built a sand castle
(x) gone puddle jumping( YES the park with puddle jumping that was a blast mia we must do that again this summer when its hot)
(x) played dress up
(x) jumped into a pile of leaves
(x) gone sledding
(x) cheated while playing a game
( ) petted a reindeer
( ) ran a red light
( ) threw up in your own hands.
(x) stayed up until 3am doing nothing
(x) danced in the moonlight
(x) gotten lost in a store
( ) fallen asleep on a trampoline
(x) cut your hair only to regret it(used to cut my own bangs when i was a little girl)
( ) gotten a tattoo
( ) ate horse food
(x) didn't take a shower for a week
( ) been hospitalized for over a week
(x) played chicken/truth or dare
(x) had surgery
(x) been threatened to be kicked out of your house
(x) kissed someone under the stars
( ) had someone close to you die from suicide
( ) lost somebody close to you in the last year
(x) lost your cell fon

So You Think You Know Me...
(2 Points) My name:
(4 Points) My last name:
(4 Points) Who am I in love with:
(1 Points) Where did we meet:
(6 Points) Take a stab at my middle name:
(1 Points) where do i work:
(3 Points) what am i afraid of:
(2 Points) Do I smoke:
(3 Points) Do I drink:
(3 points) Do you think im a virgin:
(1 Point) Do I have any siblings:
(2 Points) How many?
(2 Points) What's one of my favorite things to do:
(1 Points) How many piercings do i have:
(4 Points) How many tattoos do i have:
(3 Points) What's my favorite type of music:
(4 Points) Am I shy or outgoing:
(3 Points) Am I a rebel or do I follow the rules:
(2 Points) whats my favorite color:
(3 Points) name something i hate:
(4 Points) name a talent i have:
(4 Points) whats my phone number:
(4 Points) what kind of sneakers do i wear:
(4 Points) do i have any pets:
(2 Points) Who am i dating/likeing right now:
(5 Points) how long have i been dating/likeing them:
(5 points) how tall am i?
(5 Points) What is my worst habit:
(3 Points) What is my insecurity?:
(5 Points on creativeness) If I were stranded on a desert island,
what would I bring:

ILL SEND YOU YOUR SCORE WHEN I GRADE IT
80-85 Points; Best Friend.
70-79 Points; Great Friend.
40-69 Points; Friend.
20-39 Points; You should hang out with me more! Ask Me when.
00-19 Points; Either you're a crappy friend or you're a new friend!

Put This In Your Blog :
Reply & send to me & I'll respond & tell you.

( ) I am bisexual
(x) I Have piercings
(x) Consumed alcohol
( ) Run away from home
(x) Lied to your parents about where you are
( ) Listen to political music
( ) Collect comic books
( ) I shut others out when I'm depressed
(x) I open up to others easily
(x) I am keeping a secret from the world
(x) I watch the news
( ) I own over 5 rap CDs
(x) I own an iPod or MP3
( ) I own something from Hot Topic
(x) I love Disney Movies
(x) I am a sucker for hair/eyes
(x) I don't kill bugs
(x) I curse regularly
(x) I paid for my cell phone ring tone
( ) I am a sports fanatic
(x) I've slipped out a "lol" in a real conversation
( ) I love Spam
(x) I bake well
(x) I would wear pajamas to school
( ) I own something from Abercrombie
(x) I have a job
(x) I am in love with love
(x) I like to laugh
( ) I smoke a pack a day
( ) I have cough drops when I'm not sick
( ) I can't swallow pills
(x) I eat fast food weekly
(x) I have many scars
( ) I've been out of this country
(X) I can't sleep if there is a spider in the room
(x) I am really ticklish
(x) I've seen a therapist
(x) I love chocolate
( ) I bite my nails
(x) I am comfortable with being me
(x) I play video games
(x) Gotten lost in a city
(x) Saw a shooting star
( ) I've had serious surgery
(x) Gone out in public in your pajamas
( ) I have kissed a stranger
(x) Hugged a stranger
( ) Been in a fist fight
( ) Been arrested
(x) Pushed all the buttons on an elevator
( ) Made out in an elevator
(x) Swore at your parents.
(x) Kicked a guy where it hurts
(x) Been close to love
( ) Been to a casino
( ) Been skydiving
(x) Broken a bone
(x) Skipped school
(x) Flashed someone
( ) Done the splits
(x) Played spin the bottle
( ) Gotten stitches
( ) Drank a whole gallon of milk in one hour
(x) Bitten somebody
( ) Been to Niagara Falls
(x) Had the chicken pox
( ) Crashed into a friend's car
( ) Been to Japan
(x) Ridden in a taxi
(x) Shoplifted (ashamed of myself)
( ) Been fired
(x) Ever had a crush on someone of the same sex
(x) Had feelings for someone who didnt have them back
( ) Stole something from your job
(x) Gone on a blind date
(x) Lied to a friend
(x) Had a crush on a teacher
( ) Celebrated Mardi Gras in New Orleans
( ) Been to Europe
( ) Slept with a co-worker
(X) Been married
( ) Gotten divorced
( ) Had children
(x) Saw someone dying
( ) Been to Africa
(x) Driven over 400 miles in one day
(x) Been to Canada
( ) Been to Mexico
( ) Been on a plane
( ) Seen the Rocky Horror Picture Show
( ) Thrown up in a bar
(x) Eaten Sushi
(x) Been snowboarding
(x) Been skiing
(x) Met someone in person from the internet
(x) Been to a motor cross show
( ) Gone to college
( ) Done hard drugs
(x) Taken painkillers
( ) Had someone cheat on you
(X) Miss someone right now
(X) In love with someone
(x) Laid on your back and watched cloud shapes go by
(x) Questioned your heart
(x) Been called a slut
(x) Made out with a member of the same sex
(x) Done something you told yourself you wouldn't
(x) Felt like dying
(x) Cried yourself to sleep
(x) Played cops and robbers
(x) Recently colored with crayons/colored pencils/markers
(x) Made prank phone calls
(x) Laughed until some kind of beverage came out of your nose
(x) Caught a snowflake on your tongue
(x) Danced in the rain
(x) Written a letter to Santa Claus
( ) Been kissed under a mistletoe
( ) Watched the sun rise with someone you care about
(x) Blown bubbles
( ) Made a bonfire
( ) Crashed a party
(x) Gone roller skating
(x) Had a wish come true
( ) Humped a monkey
( ) Worn pearls
( ) Jumped off a bridge
(X) Screamed “penis” in class
( ) Ate dog/cat food
( ) Told a complete stranger you love them
(x) Kissed a mirror
(x) Sang in the shower
(x) Have a little black dress
(x) Had a dream that you married someone
(x) Glued your hand to something
( ) Got your tongue stuck to a flag pole
( ) Kissed a fish
(x) Worn the opposite sexes clothes
( ) Been a cheerleader
(x) Sat on a roof top
(x) Screamed at the top of your lungs
( ) Done a one-handed cartwheel
(X) Talked on the phone for more than 6 hours
(x) Stayed up all night
(x) Picked and ate an apple
(x) Climbed a tree
( ) Had a tree house
(x) Are scared to watch scary movies alone
(x) Believe in ghosts
( ) Have more then 30 pairs of shoes
(X) Worn a really ugly outfit to school just to see what others say
( ) Gone streaking
(x) Played nicky
(X) Been pushed into a pool with all your clothes on
(x) Been told youre hot by a complete stranger
(x) Been easily amused
(X) Caught a butterfly
(x) Laughed so hard you cried
(X) Cried so hard you laughed