[[ACT]]appalled - 18, Female, Kelowna
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goddamn.
"Telling you how much i love you is like trying to tell you what water tastes like"
 

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i'd give anything.
trust is a privilege; not a right.
it takes time and patience, and is not easily earned,
but though it's not a simple thing to come by, it is the exact opposite to lose it,
even the slightest slip, can cost you everything.
when it's lost, it's lost, and you can only try to earn it back.
there's no point in complaining about it,
as you know very well, it was your doing that lost it.
you can't blame the other person,
as in no way is it their fault.
you wait it out, and you hope that they are willing to forgive you,
and begin trusting you at all again.
 

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only false tears and cliché speeches,
nothing more than lies and pity.
both self and given,
how passé.
 

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hullo thur. i'm bored.
WRITTEN BY A GUY

1.Whatever you do, don't just show up at their house...they run around in their underwear just like we do.

2. DON'T CHEAT ON THEM. It may seem foolproof, but girls tell each other everything about everything. Trust me, they WILL find out and you will be mud.

3. Beware of every single male relative and all guy friends. Any of them would kick your butt at the drop of a hat, and a lot of them wouldn't even wait for the hat.

4. Never miss an opportunity to tell them they're beautiful.

5. Don't refuse to kiss in front of your friends. If they laugh at you, it's because they're jealous.

6. If they slap you hard, you deserved it.

7. Don't be afraid to touch them if you want to. If they're going out with you in the first place, it's because they like being in your arms.

8. If you don't sleep with them, do not tell your friends that you did.
8.5 If you DO sleep with them, don't tell your friends that you did.

9. You can be dirty minded in private, really...most of them are not offended by it...

10. Not all of them eat like birds, a lot of them can eat like whales.

11. Most of them don't mind paying half of everything, but they do discuss these things with their friends. Realize that if you make your girlfriend pay half all the time, everyone will know about it and your friends will know you're a pussy..
11.5 Do you honestly need all your money that much? Be a man, pay all the time!

12. Every girl should eventually get three things from her boyfriend- a stuffed animal, one of his sweatshirts, and a really pretty ring. Even if it's not a serious relationship. <3

13. Make sure she gets home safely as often as you can. If you're dropping her off, walk her to the door. If you aren't dropping her off, call to be sure she's home safely.

14. If a guy is bothering her, it is your right to beat the crap out of him.

15. If you're talking to a female friend of yours, pull your girlfriend closer.

16. Never, ever slap her, even if it's just in a joking way. Even if she swats you first, and says, "Oh, you're so dumb" or something, never make any gestures back.

17. Go to a chick flick once in a while. She doesn't care whether you enjoy it or not, it just matters that you went.

18. You're dead meat if you can't get along with their pets, parents, and best friends. Be prince charming to their friends, Mr. Polite to their parents, and make sure to be nice to their animals.

19. Don't flirt with their moms...that's just freaky.

20. Don't be freaked out by PMS. It's not gross, and it really does make them feel like crap, so be understanding.

21. If you don't like the way they drive, you do it.

22. If you're officially dating, and you're introducing her to your friends, you'd better introduce her as your girlfriend.

23. Don't stress where you go for every date. They really only want to be with you.

24. If they complain that something hurts, rub it for them without being asked.

25. Girls are fragile. Even if you're play fighting/wrestling, be very gentle.

26. Memorize their birthdays. You forget her birthday and you're basically screwed for life.

27. Don't marinade the cologne, but smell good.

28. Don't give her something stupid for her birthday or Christmas or Valentine's day. It doesn't have to be expensive, but it has to be meaningful. Jewelry is always nice.

29. If you think the relationship isn't going to last, don't wait to find out. It will only hurt you more if you draw it out.

30. After you've been dating for a while, realize that they really have started to trust you. When you have a girlfriend who truly trusts you, you have a lot more responsibility, privilege and control than you would think. Be careful with it, most guys would kill for that kind of power, and it can be lost in a nanosecond


 

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to every guy
To every guy that's said, "Sex CAN wait"
To every guy that's said, "You're beautiful."
To every guy that was never too busy to drive across town to see her.
To every guy that gives flowers and a card when she is sick.
To every guy who has given her flowers just because.
To every guy that said he would die for her.
To every guy that really would.
To every guy that took time to do what she wanted to do.
To every guy that she cried in front of.
To every guy that holds hands with her.
To every guy that kisses her with meaning.
To every guy that hugs her when she's sad.
To every guy that hugs her for no reason at all.
To every guy who would give their jacket up for her.
To every guy that calls to make sure she got home safe.
To every guy that would sit and wait for her for hours
just to see her for ten minutes.
To every guy that would give his seat up.
To every guy that just wants to cuddle.
To every guy that reassured her that she was beautiful
no matter what.
To every guy who told his secrets to her.
To every guy that tried to show how much he cared
through every word and every breath.
To every guy that thought maybe this could be the one.
To every guy that believed in her dreams.
To every guy that would have done anything
so she could achieve them.
To every guy that never laughed at her
when she told him her dreams.
To every guy that walked her to her car.
To every guy that gave his heart.
To every guy who prays that she is happy
even if you are not with her.


...This one is for you...


Not many girls appreciate nice guys anymore...
And because of this, there are not many left out there...
Dicks are the way to do it.

i guarantee 90% of the dudes reading this don't have the balls to put it up cuz it's all about image

If you are a nice guy repost this with "We're a Dying Breed "

If you are a girl that thinks every guy should treat a girl this way
repost this with: "To Every Guy"
 

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ily.
 

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back in the day
fuck man,
i miss the way i used to think,
i mean, i actually thought about stuff,
stuff that mattered to me,
and its like over the past couple months
i've started to not care.
and that bothers me.
starting now,
i'm thinking about things before i speak and act,
coming to my senses,
and getting my own thoughts back,
because this is rediculous.


the only people you need in your life,
are the ones that prove they need you in theirs.
because in my opinion
if someone believes you're not worth their time,
they're probably not worth yours.


i see no point,
in trying to be something your not,
to be accepted by people,
who are trying to be something they're not,
to impress people,
who they arent going to remember 5 years from now.

doesnt it make more sense,
to be who you are,
and find people who accept you,
people you dont have to impress,
people who are going to remember you.


Have you ever noticed,
it seems nothing happens when it's supposed to?
how everything happens at the wrong time,
or for the wrong reasons?
well, i've come to a conclusion;
maybe when we think everything is going wrong,
it's actually going right,
everything happens for a reason,
whether it's good or bad,
it happens because it's supposed to.


tell me something?
tell me why, the person we fall for,
is never really ready to catch us?
tell me why, when we think we've found "the one",
they turn out to be "the worst"?
and tell me why we're constantly looking to impress
that one person, the one who we know will never actually notice us,
why we seem to think that,
if we have any sense of individuality, we should change ourselves,
so we "blend in with the crowd"
in my honest to god opinion,
we really need to change our habits,
the way we look at eachother, and ourselves.
i'm sick and tired of losing friends,
cause they're being something they're not,
i'm over and done with putting up with this
"pre-madonna, self absorbed, egotistic, pointless bullshit"
i just don't see why we do it.
do you?
why do our lives revolve around talking about someone else's?
it's not my buisness, it's not your buisness
and our lives aren't they're buisness.
everyday, i end up thinking why i've done some of the things that i have,
what i did to mess things up all over again,
how i could have fixed something, anything.
i'm not proud of the decisions i've made.
and i probably wont be all that happy about the decisions i'm going to make either,
let's face it, i'm not perfect,
i know that
you obviously know that,
but you're going to have to face that you're not perfect either.
to be blunt. we're far from it.
i've come to accept that, can you?
i'm bored of everyone's "i'm better than you" attitude all the time.
cause it's not ture,
you're no better than the person beside you,
basically what i'm trying to say is,
everyone needs to get ahold of themselves
and just
STOP
THINK
LISTEN AND
figure shit out.
cause it's driving me over the edge,
and i can barely handle anything anymore.



The Way I See It Is...
everyone really just needs to get a reality check, a view at what really going on,
we all need to get ahold of ourselves and get over ourselves.
we're all worried about what he thinks,
or what she said, but think about it for a minute,
isnt that sick? we're all so caught up trying to impress someone else,
we're forgetting who we used to be, our real selves.
which is really too bad, cause at one point i actually used to like myself
 

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;D
We were given two hands to hold,
Two legs to walk,
Two eyes to see,
Two ears to listen,
But why only one heart?

Probably because somewhere,
There is a person who has the other half of your whole.
 

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actually our world today is just fucked in general. everything is a competition, the world is falling apart and there's nothing we can do about it now. people are being killed, because everyone is prejudece and racist against everyone else. technology kills us, we rely on superficial, material items to get us thorugh the day. we go on power trips and it gets worse everyday. we're judged by the amount of money we have and thats sick. we want and want and want, so everything has become about money. what does that leave us as? greedy, selfish, awful people. i wish i lived in the 70's, or somewhere around there. i mean 30 years man, and everything has changed. everything is unnecessary, and we're not doing anything about it. i'm sure they had their problems, but they were sure as hell not this!
what have we become?
 

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shit sonnn
listening to what other people say about someone you don't know and then judging them is a bad thing because you never really know if its the truth. the person you listen to could despise the other they are talking about and reveal all the others weaknesses and bad sides to that person. but understanding hate is a hard thing to do. hate is different for everyone. when someone says "i hate you" they could actually love you in a sense its just the way the mind puts it. some people just don't like dealing with the truth that they love this one person, so they decide to "hate" them when actually its the opposite. all emotions are more complex then people realize because it is impossible not to hate, love, and truly understand ones self
 

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winnie the pooh.
if ever there is tomorrow when we're not together..
there is something you must always remember.
you are braver than you believe ;
stronger than you seem ; and smarter than you think.
but the most important thing is, even if we`re apart.. i'll always be with you.
 

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JACKED UP MO'FUCKAA
SOOO kirstiinnn!!

YOU ARE FANTASTIC AND SO HILARIOUS!!
I HAD SOO MUCH FUB LASTT NIGHT,
YOU AND THE OGOPOGO MAKING LOVE
IN THIS CLUB!!

I HOOPE WE CAN HANG OUT MORE
BECAUSE WE DO NOT HANG OUT ENOUGH!!!!

LOVE YOUU
NICOLE
BESTFRIENDDDS MO'FUCKAA
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dont ever doubt it.
i'll love you forver,
i'll like you for always.
as long as i'm living,
my baby you'll be.
 

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look at my puppy
this is Koji.


 

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hfjskahjksd
RIP grandpa
ily.
 

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