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And the harsh reality of life is that you are going to get hurt. You're going to cry over a silly boy. You're heart's going to be broken. But you have to pull yourself together so people don't see how vulnerable you are because once people see vulnerability, they take advantage of you. And the whole process starts all over again.




01.
I’m sorry that sometimes, I get a little jealous, thinking that someone else could make you happier than I could. I guess it’s my insecurities acting up. Because I know that I’m not the prettiest, smartest or most fun and exciting girl. But I do know that no matter how far and long you look, you will never find someone that loves you like I do.

02.
No matter how many plans we make or steps we follow, we never know how our day is going to end up. We'd prefer to know, of course, what curve balls will be thrown our way. It's the accidents that always turn out to be the most interesting parts of our day, the people we never expected to show up, a turn of events we never would have chose for ourselves. All of a sudden you find yourself somewhere you never expected to be and it's nice, or it takes some getting used to. Still, maybe you’ll find yourself appreciating it somewhere down the line. So you go to sleep each night thinking about tomorrow, going over your plans, preparing for them, and hoping that whatever accidents come your way will be happy ones.

03.
Isn’t it nice to know that you haven’t yet laughed, all that you’ll laugh? That you haven’t yet met, some of your very best friends? And that you haven’t yet dreamed, all that you’ll manifest? That all bridges will be mended? That all sadness will be healed? And that life never ends? That all of your challenges will be won? That all of your triumphs will be shared? And that the difference you’ll make, has already begun? Well, it is for me, because I also know that if you don’t see these things yet, you will. Could it get any better?

04.
“I have a question,” I said, pulse racing and heart pounding. “I have an answer,” he said easily, smiling and never taking his eyes off of me. I blushed, baffled for a moment. How could he not know? It was so obvious that he was the answer to why I was smiling, the answer to exactly what I needed.

05.
Can I be honest with you? Yeah, I did like you. Got a problem with that? Then go fuck yourself, God knows you do that often enough anyways. Go off; Go tell every one of your friends. Do it. I fucking dare you. Cause I guarantee that half of them won't give a fuck. Cause half of them don't even like you. And you act all tough and shit? Well, honestly, you're not. You're a fucking scared shitless kid who has no idea what the fuck is going on the in real world. You're scared because you know that being a dick makes people not care about you. And yet you do it anyway cause it makes you seem stronger. Well it doesn't. If it does then why don't you just get your sorry ass drunk again? Cause I doubt anyone will fucking care if you do it. You're not funny. No one needs shit from you, especially me. Cause I've been through enough in the past year alone, and I still haven't broken. That's what strong is. Maybe you should take some notes on that cause you have no idea what it means to be strong. Yeah, you got that tough exterior, I'll give you that, but you don’t have the balls to back it up.
( lovequotes_x_o )

06.
Summer romances end for all kinds of reasons. But when all is said and done, they have one thing in common: They are shooting stars- a spectacular moment of light in the heavens, a fleeting glimpse of eternity. And in a flash, they're gone.
( The Notebook )

07.
I decided that enough is enough. That since you obviously don't care about me anymore, I'm going to move on. Easier said than done, I suppose. Because at the end of the day, I'm staring out the window with these tears on my cheeks. Just look at what you've done to me.

09.
I decided that enough is enough. That since you obviously don't care about me anymore, I'm going to move on. Easier said than done, I suppose. Because at the end of the day, I'm staring out the window with these tears on my cheeks. Just look at what you've done to me.

10.
Everything has been said before, but since nobody listens we have to keep going back and beginning all over again.

11.
you know it's an important thing-saying i love you to the people that matter because you never know when you'll lose them-or when they'll lose you.
[One Tree Hill]

12.
& maybe sometimes you two just need that break.
just so you know when your ready.. they'll still always be there.

13.
as soon as i accept that you're gone, you come back.
(c)mfhgraphics

14.
I'm starting to get tired of getting pushed around. You're the only guy I'll let my self go through all this shit for. I don't even know why, you just got something special that causes me to fall head over heels over and over again.
[ teen_summer_love ]

15.
Girls are taught a lot of stuff growing up. If a guy punches you, he likes you. Never try to trim your own bangs and someday you will meet a wonderful guy and get your very own happy ending. Every movie we see, every story we're told implores us to wait for it, the third act twist, the unexpected declaration of love, the exception to the rule. But sometimes we're so focused on finding our happy ending we don't learn how to read the signs. How to tell from the ones who want us and the ones who don't, the ones who will stay and the ones who will leave. And maybe a happy ending doesn't include a guy, maybe it's you, on your own, picking up the pieces and starting over, freeing yourself up for something better in the future. Maybe the happy ending is just moving on. Or maybe the happy ending is this, knowing after all the unreturned phone calls, broken hearts, through the blunders and misread signals, through all the pain and embarrassment, you never gave up hope.
[he's just not that into you]

16.
stop talking about love. every asshole in the world says he loves somebody. it means nothing. it still doesn't mean anything. what you feel only matters to you. it's what you do to the people you say you love, that's what matters. its the only thing that counts.

17.
you know what maybe its time for a break, a nice long one with that. Things have been confusing and hard for me right now, and im sure it was the same for you, but im glad you finally said what you had on your mind for the last couple days. Yes it was hard hearing it but i guess you could say that im use to it. I can tell you right now im not going to find someone better cause its not what i want, just because you think someone is "perfect" doesn't mean they need someone perfect too. Having someone different makes things worth while. You were so different then me, and it made everything so exciting, so life changing, i know im only fourteen, but you made a huge difference on how i see life. The time you taught me the most was when you were so mad, because you let out everything you had inside.Look, no one is perfect, i know im not, and neither are you, but you always showed me what love was, and how to love. That was and probably always will be the greatest experience i ever had and im fucking glad I got to share it with you.

18.
Think that the only reason why people hold onto memories so tight, for so long is cause memories are the only things that don`t change when everything else does.

19.
She glances in the mirror and throws her hair up, ripped jeans, an old hoodie -- they're all she needs. She runs out the door, five minutes before class starts and arrives just as the bell rings, cheeks flushed. She doesn't try that hard at school and she plays sports because she likes to run. Her room's a mess and her cell phone's always dead, but she just smiles ; she knows the world is hers. She has her enemies, she's made mistakes and she knows it. But she doesn't care. She's happy with who she is and who she has -- because that's all she needs.

20.
people are going to hate you, love you, love to hate you, and hate to love you, but the ones that mean the most .. will always be there.

21.
There is no person in the world who is made to handle every punch that's thrown at them. We aren't made that way. In fact, we're made to get mad, upset, sad, be hurt, stumble and fall. We aren't suppose to be able to handle everything. But that's what makes us stronger in the end, by learning from the things that hurt us the most.

22.
Get over him. He's not even worth it. He is not worth your time or your tears. Yea you loved him, I know that. And i know you just cant see yourself with anyone other than him, i get that. Ive been there. But why should you spend all your time sitting at home, bawling your eyes out and wondering where he is and who he is with. Do you honestly think he is thinking about you? No. Sure it hurts, the fact that he is out there falling in and out of love with other girls. Yea your gonna see him with one of his new girlfreinds. Prepare yourself, coz straight up; its gonna hurt. He will hold her a little closer and squeeze her hand a little tighter just because he knows your watching. He knows its killing you; thats why he will do it. Dont let him get to you because that, well thats exactly what he wants. Dont give him what he wants. He doesnt even deserve it. So what if he doesn't talk to you; do you honestly wanna be friends with an asshole like him anyways? Thing is i know you still do. But give it time. Because all he would do is talk about his new girlfriend and just try and make you jealous, do you really wanna hear that? No. Screw him and his girlfriend. He will be sorry. trust me. When he finally sees you with some other guy whos not him. With that huge grin on your face and your boyfriend holding you close with that huge grin on your face and your boyfriend holding you close, he will realise how happy you are now. And how happy your boyfriend is because the has you; he girl of his dreams. He will realise the huge mistake he made when he let you go, when he decided to choose her over you.When he decided he just did not love you the same. Trust me, he will be sorry. And dont you sit there thinking he won't be sorry I know you are. But i guarentee you now; He will be sorry. So dont go on spending your nights waiting for that one phone call you know your never gonna get. Or that IM you know he will never send you simply because he likes to ignore you. He like to pretend he does not see you online, he does it outta spite just because he knows its killing you. When he walks past you in the hallways he is gonna look past you,but you needa know he will do that cuz he knows somewhere inside you, it will hurt.+i aint gonna lie to you. It will hurt. It will hurt alot. But it will hurt even more when you see her name and how much he loves her in his profile. Its all gonna hurt. Knowing your not the girl thats making him smile. Knowing your not the first person he thinks of when he wakes up and the last before he goes to sleep. Knowing your not the face on his backgroud of his phone anymore. Knowing if he hasnt already he will delete the album of pictures of you he has on his phone. Knowing you wont be spending every single moment possible with him. Knowing theres not gonna be no more late night phone calls argueing about who loves who the most. And you know what, today, tomorrow, next week,months from now; your phone will go off with a text message, you will instantly grab your phone hoping its him saying he wants to give your relationship another shot.But trust me; hes got to much pride. Even if he wanted to be back with you, he wouldnt tell you. Your soon gonna realise he doesnt care about you anymore and he wont be the first person you call when your upset. He wont be the one to put that smile back on your face. And yea its gonna hurt; its gonna hurt alot. But you know what your gonna do? Your gonna hold your head up.Your gonna show him your better than him and you dont need him in your life. Your gonna prove to him that he made the biggest mistake of his life letting you go that you never really needed him anyways.

23.
Here's a toast. To the good days, the better friends. The ones that you just can'tlive without. The people that have taught you how to party. How to live. How to have a good time just sitting around. Here are to the people that no matter how bad things seem, are going to be there for you. To lean back on and catch you if you fall.

24.
There's people that come and go in your life, but i thought you were gonna be different. You promised we had each others back no matter what. I still am going to keep that promise, but can you? I guess this is all just a part of growing up, but if i keep losing my best friends i don't think i want to grow up.. It's becoming much harder than i thought. Maybe we could just fix things when we both are much maturer..
[ teen_summer_love ]

25.
life changes every minute of every day. you lose friends & you gain friends. you realize your friend wasn't ever really your friend, & that person you used to hate can make a really good friend. you look for love. you find love & you lose love. you realize all along that you've been loved. you laugh, you cry. you laugh so hard that you cry. you do this, you do that. you really wish you hadn't dont that. you then learn from that & are glad that you did. you have your ups & you have your downs. you see good movies & you see bad movies. you wonder if your life is just one big movie. you look at others & wish you were them. you then realize who they are & are glad that you're you. you love life and you hate life. in the end, you just find yourself being happy to be living life, no matter what is thrown at you.

26.
I still get chills when i listen to these songs that you mentioned. You probably think that i have forgotten about you. But no, i still think about you everyday, if not more. You were my first love, or so i thought. No, i don't like, or love you still. I got over you finally, but you taught me so much. And i just wanted to thank you. Those were some of the best months of my life. Don't let any girl tell you that all you are is an asshole, cause you're not. Sure you have you moments, but don't we all? You just about the greatest thing that has happened to me. & you'll always have a spot in my heart and give me chills whenever i see your name.
[ teen_summer_love ]

26.
I’ve got this crazy idea, we forget about what everyone else wants for us and decide for ourselves what we want our lives to be.

27.
Laugh when you can. Apologize when you should. And let go of what you can't change. Love deeply and forgive quickly. Take chances and give your everything. Life is too short to be anything but happy. You have to take the good with the bad. Love what you got. Always remember what you had. Forgive, but don't forget. Learn from your mistakes but never regret. People change and things go wrong, But always remember that life goes on.

28.
All i want to leave behind when i die, is my love and huge impression. I want to love every guy that comes along with all i got, until there's nothing left. I want to make a difference in everyone's life. Even in the smallest way. When i get older, all i want is to help anyone and everyone i can. I don't wanna be a nun, of course i'll have my regrets and mistakes. I won't be perfect, but i don't want to be. I want to show everyone what it really is like to live. That's all i want to do.
[ teen_summer_love ]

29.
i guess it's just hard talking to you when you were once my everything. i depended on you & you let me down. it's hard to talk to you when every time we do, i feel mad at you. i guess we'll just have to see where life takes us. maybe we're meant to never talk again, maybe we're meant to be friends, or maybe we're meant to be together. we'll just have to wait and see.

30.
you don't love someone because they're perfect.
you love them in spite of the fact that they're not.
[jodi picoult ; my sister's keeper]

31.
You know when you're singing along with this song, and you know all the words cause you really love it. Then a train passes and a door closes, and you can't hear the music anymore, but you keep singing anyway. Then, when you can hear it again, you're still perfectly in time with it. Well, that's what love is.

32.
you're not friends because you sit together at lunch, or talk on the phone, or have matching flip flops, or can recite each others wardrobes. you're best friends because when she smiles, a grin forces itself across your face. no matter how mad you are, when she cries, you instantly feel her pain and want to cry with her. when you look her in the eyes, you know there no one you could ever trust more, regardless of how many broken hearts you've had. thats what it means to be best friends.

33.
I see you're hurt. I honestly do want to help you.. But if i try to, i'll just make a fool outta myself. You don't want me back in your life like it use to be. It's almost like i feel it when you're crying. My heart just breaks in the fact that you have. I don't want you to leave.. You may say i'm fake, i don't mind though. Cause you meant almost everything to me, you were pretty much family. I don't exactly know what happened, but it did. End of story. I'm sorry for everything, At the moment, he was my biggest mistake. I should of stayed with the other guy, and we both know it. But we couldn't see what was gonna happen, we couldn't see the mistake i was gonna make. You have no idea how happy i felt when you came into the bathroom to give me a hug when i was crying. You made everything okay just in the moment cause i felt i had you back for good. But i didn't. Something happened, again. I'm not so sure what, but it did. I felt almost complete when you said you were sorry for everything. But for a fact, it wasn't even your fault, not onee bit of it. It was all my fault. I want you back in my life so fuckin bad. Every time my mom asks me if you had asked your dad yet, i start to tear up.. I have to lie to her until she just forgets. I say my life is great, but that's just a big fat lie. & if you came up to me telling me you want me to break up with him, i would. I would do it in a flash. I just want everything to be back to normal. Obviously it won't. Ever. But i guess i'll have to get over it. & That beaner guy? Yeah, i understand just how you feel. I don't expect you to get over him, or even try if you don't want too. He's an asshole, but aren't all guys we can't get over. He treated you right at the time, and i give him credit for that. I wish i could help, i honestly do. & i'm here to listen, if you ever need me. & this is my promise for you, I promise that i will ALWAYS be here for you. I HATE that you're moving. I will never, ever, ever turn my back on you. I will never talk bad about you either. I will never talk bad about alli either. I know i did wrong, with it all. And i'm sorry, with all my heart. I want to take it all back. But i can't. Sad story, i know. But i just wanted to say sorry, and let you know that i am ALWAYZZ here for you.
 
Never Shout Never is Christofer Drew, an 18-year-old singer-songwriter and guitarist from Joplin, Missouri. In 2008, Drew began writing and recordings songs in his basement and self-released an EP that has sold more than 30,000 copies and hundreds of thousands of individual tracks. Never Shout Never quickly built a grassroots following via the internet. What Is Love?, his first full length album, includes 8 tracks plus a download code for 2 bonus live tracks and is produced by Butch Walker.

With an album title that poses a question so deep, we can't help but ask you: What is love? For more info on how to enter, check out the Never Shout Never contest page.


-- The Nex Team
 
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I think the idea is that every person has to live for his or her own life
and then make the choice to share it with other people.
 
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For a moment when the blare of the TV subsides
And then song fills the air, playing every night
A change in the key feels like a change in the season

 
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Great everyday magic is discovering those who are strong enough to catch you. Those who care enough to reach out their arms and cushion your fall. And I think that’s what’s so wonderful about life - you never know when you’ll stumble upon these kinds of marvelous people, or when they’ll stumble onto you. And as terrifying as it sounds, the greatest thing that could ever happen to us is to slip up in the wind and float down into that fall. Because you never know who will be waiting for you at the bottom.

 
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That I realize now you weren't strong enough to pull yourself out of the haze you fell into. There were days when I would have given anything for you to have just acknowledged the fact that I was alive, the fact that you were alive. I didn't need you to laugh or to talk or to even get out of bed. No, I just needed proof that your soul was still buried somewhere underneath all that darkness. But you were nothing more than an abandoned hermit shell, hollowed of all self presence. You had fled the shore seeking different shelter from all the demons you'd yet to face. You'd deserted your body which was now an empty vessel of your self worth, and somehow, you managed to destroy everything you left behind, including me. Yet, despite all this, I can't be angry with you. Because although I always said you chose the coward's way out, you never did claim to be brave.

 
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"Well you're not brave if you still keep the letters
and you're not sane if you don't want to get
better and you're not drunk if you can stay
in your lane. Well, you're not awake,
but you haven't been sleeping and you
hate god, but you don't believe in him. And you're
not scared but you've still got your eyes closed."

 
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"How do you know?" she said & the answers fell like feathers or the first snowflakes of October, light & without words. "You just know", I said.

 
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there were things I wanted to tell him
but i knew they would hurt him
so I burried them and let them hurt me

 
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Do you know what happens when you hurt people? When you hurt people, they begin to love you less. That's what careless words do. They make people love you a little less.

 
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I spend 23 hours a day wondering whether we’re wrong for each other, wondering whether we’ve got the energy that we need to get through everything that we seem to get into, whether the baggage we both bring would sink a small ship. But in the 24th hour, I realize I’ve been thinking about you for 23 hours. There’s something about you I can’t stay away from. Something about you, that makes me want to love you.

 
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And I'll do the things that remind me of you
And I'll wash my hair in your shampoo
And I'll buy your perfume and spray it 'round my room
And I'll smoke your cigarettes so that I'm dying too

 
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She stood, in a room of crumbling plaster, pressed to the window-pane, looking up at the unattainable form of everything she loved. She did not know the nature of her loneliness. The only words that named it were: This is not the world I expected.

 
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Dear whoever is reading this:
You are loved. You are lovely and you are loved.
End of story.