Before you sit there and inbox me saying whatever it is you want to "try" and get to know me there is a list of things you probably need to know
1) I don't care that you saw me on spotlight I only have plus so I can see which of you people waste your time looking at my profile and don't bother to say hi.

2) If by chance you think you've got me figured out as the kind of person I am you can just not bother to talk to me because you honestly could NEVER know.

3) I'm probably not interested in "hooking up" or meeting so we can "hang out" most people on my friends list I already know and respect.

4) I doubt any of you will gain my respect.

5) I like and play so much music because it helps me deal with all the emotional stress i'm constantly under not because somebody has told me to check out a song, every song I listen to has a particular meaning to me.

6) If you honestly want to get to know me message me on this site don't try and find me on facebook or add my m.s.n. I only use it for email.

7) The chances of me caring about what your problems are would be a 0% chance not because i'm an ass but because I simply don't care and have more then enough of my own.

8) I DO NOT BELIEVE IN ANY SORT OF GOD OR HIGHER POWER.....so don't come preach your religion at me.

9) My life was ruined by one man that I trusted now I'll most definitly never accomplish my dream and I don't need your support telling me I can live my dream i've already accepted I can't and have moved on.

10) If you still have even the slightest bit of interest in getting to know me and I don't want to get to know you I am a fairly nice guy and will decline nicely and not seem like this big dick I think I've portrayed myself as.

I do however enjoy meeting new people but as you can tell I am very choosey about who it is if you couldn't tell from my list

So if you would like to continue please read on to find out more about me