Where do I start? Anything I say here about my good qualities, (just like everyone else's list) has been said thousands of times and as such loses it's meaning. I am not going to try to play myself up as a perfect person because I still have many obstacles to overcome inner and outer. The only thing I can say for sure is that I try to be more true to who I want to be and what I want to represent every day. In the last few years I have started to get a handle on what I truely want and what will make me happy and have been trying to get rid of the excess. I have developed an urge to learn as of late, that I only had a hint of in highschool and I am trying to expand my knowledge of things around me.

I think the most important trait I am looking for in someone is the ability to hold there own in an debate without it becoming an arguement because as soon as it turns into an arguement it becomes an ego battle and all logic and reason is thrown out the window. I'm giving this a shot because I have never liked trying to meet women at the usual places like bars and I want to widen my options. I am currently apprenticing as a mechanic and I love trying extreme sports, I plan on skydiving more this summer so I can do a 12000ft freefall. Also I don't mind drinking in moderation from time to time but I definatly do not need to drink or do drugs to have fun.

I was semi raised as a christian and I do honor the good things it teaches but as I have grown and became more educated I have realized that I can't blindly believe in any faith and their occasional immoral practices. Religious books are to be taken as a learning tools and sometimes you have to throw out the parts that aren't rational just like any other books.

I try to not be a superficial person, even though I do believe everyone has a right to be a little bit. There may be great people who you just aren't attracted to and there is nothing wrong with it. I find I can't have one without the other. I have met many beautiful people who are mentally vacant I have also met extremely intelligent, witty people who are in no way physically attractive to me. I find too many people are against superficiality but I think you have a right to find what you want instead of secretly not getting what you really want and resenting it and doing the person you are with, no favors. In the end I think you need a bit of physical attraction but a lot more mental connection because you need someone who you can laugh with when you grow old and wrinkly.

I am looking for a woman not a girl who is independent, doesn't need to be in a relationship but who is looking to share and enrich her life with an open, fulfilling relationship. I am a very independent person but I know the value of having someone to experience life with. If this sounds like something you might be interested in then lets chat!

My car

Skiing, working out,
fun parties, dancing
good friends, stargate,
XBOX, mushrooms,

Mountain biking,
Bruce Campbell movies and anything directed by Sam Raimi.
Eminem, Linkin Park, Metallica, ACDC
Black Eyed Peas, Rob Zombie
Jessica Alba, Gwen Stefani, Godsmack
Tea Party, Nine inch Nails, Ramstein
Sexy cars (Vipers, Mustangs, Ford GT)
sence of humor, nice smile

onions, fake people, players
slow drivers, posers, people who "don't dance"
Ugly people (inside), SUV's,
Smokers (but I put up with a few, BUT NOT IN MY CAR !! )
Intollerant people, religious fanatics (believe what you want just don't try to force others)
Ugly economy cars and hybrids (you know oil companies want them to stay ugly so no one will buy them)
People into power struggles and too much drama.