I finally came to realize today that no matter who says what to you no matter what they are saying wat anyone says to you they are only suggestions they are only advice they are not for u take and try putting to life they are ideas to base your own thoughts upon and come to your own realization of the meaning those words have you have to use your own heart your head and seriously put your all into finding how you yourself feel i've finally came to terms with how i may self feel to see through the base instinct to listen and allow others to judge your life i've finally figured out that its all yours to keep to learn from to find your own way to find what you truely want and not what others think is better for you so my advice my sharing for the day is the ideaoligy that if you think with YOUR head and YOUR heart the answers will come you wont always feel so lost you will actully finally know who you really are and you can finally see what it is you have to do... i just wish this realization could have help me