As a teen we all go through the same problems. Some of us hold them in, and act like everything is okay, when others come right out and say something is wrong. Through the years I have tried both. Letting it all out and keeping it in. I have found that keeping it in, just leads to more problems. Because sooner or later you will have SO many problems inside you, you will just blow up and probably make someone or more than one person mad or upset. Letting it out on the other hand, can often lead to making things a lot better.
By letting it out, we’re either going to get advice from someone to help us fix what has happened, or letting someone know how you feel might let them understand they are hurting you, and things will get fixed, hopefully. There is always an up and down to that though. If you let someone know they are hurting you, or making you upset, and right upfront come up to them and tell them, they might feel overwhelmed and feel that you are just bursting out on them. If you are going to tell them, pull them aside from everyone, and calmly tell them how you feel. Getting upset or yelling at them isn’t going to make matters worse, if anything, it will make them more upset and things will not get fixed.
As we grow up, we change, and that’s just how things go. As much as I like that we change and grow up, I find it very hard to cope with. When we’re little, and younger, we don’t worry about the things we worry about now. As kids, the biggest problems were that your little sister or brother were playing/taking your toys or that you didn’t like the food that was put on your plate so you wouldn’t eat it or your friend could swing higher than you on the swing. Now we deal with problems that we didn’t even think were possible. I find the two biggest right now, to be, friends and boys. Whatever happened to “hoes before bros” girls? I don’t really know what’s happening to all of us, but things are different. Boys need to realize, boobs and ass aren’t everything. Recently, I feel that many boys out there are just in it for that kind of thing and it’s ridiculous. What ever happened to looks don’t matter, its what their personality is like. My ass. It just doesn’t work like that with them. && its horrible. And as for friends, Im not really sure who I can and can not trust with my whole heart. There are very few people out there that I can tell EVERYTHING to. I used to think I could trust everyone, and thought we were all friends. But a friend is someone who you trust and you know will be there for you when you’re upset. && a good friend, is hard to find, they really are.
I think that we should all try to look at the bright side on things, and get to know people for who they really are before we judge them. && as for looking on the bright side, I know, I know, it might be hard, but that’s when looking on the bright side is best, when you think things couldn’t get any worse, when you just want to explode, looking for the positive side will make things so much better. It will make it seem like there is a hope for things to get better when you didn’t think they could.
Life isn’t a game && we shouldn’t play people. But, life is full of adventure and is there to make mistakes and learn from them. So take your mistakes and turn them into a learning experience. Meet new people. Do new things. Try your best && never give up.
Life, Laugh and Love.