I've learned that being quiet doesn't always mean you have nothing to say.
I've learned that I feel better about myself when I make others feel better about themselves.
I've learned that people will remember you as being a great conversationalist if you mostly listen.
I've learned that as soon as you get rid of somethin gyou haven't used in years, you need it the very next week.
I've learned that being kind is more important than being right.
I've learned that I need to let me friends comfort me and hold me up, to let them know that I need support, that I'm not always as strong as I look or act.
I've learned that my father saved me from many foolish act with these words :
"Go ask your mother."
I've learned that children sleep better if they have had a huge hug and kiss from both mom and dad.
I've learned that nothing beats a hot summer night, a car full of friends, the windows down, music playing, and whistling at boys.
I've learned that we should be glad God doesn't give us everything we ask for.
I've learned that I don't have a right to complain about something if I had the power to changed it and didn't.
I've learned that boys only rub your back to find out if you are wearing a bra.
I've learned that if you pretend like you're taking notes, the teacher won't call on you.
I've learned that the size of a house has nothing to do with how happy it is inside.
I've learned that once a relationship is over, if you experienced more smiles than tears, then it wasnt a waste of time.
I've learned that under everyone's hard shell is someone who wants to be appreciated and loved.
I've learned that if for nothing else, boyfriends are good for squishing those big black spiders that appear in the bathtub.
I've learned that you shouldn't judge a person unless you have talked to him/her one on one.
I've learned that when my best girlfriend tells me she's angry with her boyfriend and it's okay if I go out with him, she doesn't mean it.
I've learned that if you are still talking about what you did yesterday, you haven't done much today.
I've learned that it isn't always enough to be forgiven by others. Sometimes you have to learn to forgive yourself.
I've learned that when I walk into my room at the end of the day, I always feel better when my bed is made.
I've learned that I always think of the right thing to say when it's too late
I've learned that what matters is not that you be the best, but that you try your best.
I've learned that some people go for brains and some for beauty, but everyone appreciates a good sense of humor
I've learned that if you pray for your enemies, you will stop hating them.
I've learned that you shouldn't waste too much of today worrying about yesterday.
I've learned that your "I can" is more important than your "IQ."
I've learned that I shouldn't say, "I don't care for that last piece of pie" when i really want it.
I've learned that men don't know what to do when a woman cries.
I've learned that in this world, you don't need a multitude of friends. All you really need is one who will stand by you through thick and thin.
I've learned that girls burp as much as guys.
I've learned that after being on a diet for two weeks, all I lose is fourteen days.
I've learned that you shouldn't judge people too quickly. Sometimes they have a good reason for the way they act.
I've learned that it is hard to lie when you are looking into your mother's eyes
I've learned that no matter how good a friend someone is, they're going to hurt you every once in a while and you must forgive them for that.
I've learned that I can't choose how I feel, but I can choose what I do about it.
I've learned that children follow examples, not advice.
I've learned that nobody wants to know what you're doing until you're doing something that you don't want anyone to know.
I've learned that nothing makes me feel prettier when a guy holds my hand.
I've learned that although nodboy admits to liking to have their picture taken, everyone secretly does.
I've learned that maturity has more to do with what types of experiences you've had and what you've learned from them and less to do with how many birthdays you've celebrated.
I've learned that no matter how much I care, sometimes some people just don't care back.
I've learned that when you have an older brother who is much larger than you, he is always right.
I've learned that you are not an adult until you accept resposibility for your own actions and quit blaming everything on the way your parents reared you.
I've learned that I am the only one in my house who cleasn the hair out of the drain in the shower.
I've learned that no matter how much a friend promises not to tell anyone esle, she always does.
I've learned that when I'm acting really stupid and I think that no one's watching, the guy I want to impress is watching.
I've learned that the greatest test of friendship is to take a vacation together and still like each other when you return.
I've learned that although I can skip class without getting in trouble, there's still the consequence at exam time.
I've learned that a woman can stand anything but being forgotten or not being needed.
I've learned that you can't believe everything you hear, even if you hear it twice
I've learned that no matter how beautiful your makeup is, it can't hide the expression of a sad heart.
I've learned that if you are in a relationship with someone who doesn't believe in you, you should get out before you stop believing in yourself.

To every girl that is scared to put her heart out there again, because she has been hurt too many times or so badly.
To every girl that has been cheated on, because she's not a slut who gives it up to any guy.
To every girl that will spend her whole day looking for the perfect present for you.
To every girl who gets her heart broken, because he chose that bitch instead.
To every girl that would give anything to have a decent boyfriend.
To every girl who would just once like to be treated like a princess.
To every girl that cries at night because of another heartbreak.
To every girl that just wants to hold hands.
To every girl that kisses him with meaning.
To every girl who just wishes he cared more.

To every girl who just wants him to call.
To every girl who lies awake at night thinking about him.
To every girl that just wants to cuddle.
To every girl who shows how much she cares and gets nothing back.To every girl that thought "maybe this one could be the one."
To every girl that laughs at stupid stuff when she actually doesn't think it is funny.
To every girl who is just looking for that one and only and is having a rough time along the way.
To every girl that doesn't want a guy who just plays with her emotions but actually cares about how she feels.

To every girl who wants words backed up with actions.
To every girl that fell for all the lies only to find themselves alone in the end.
To every girl that gave her heart away only to have it shoved back in her face.
To every girl that has faith that "tomorrow will be a better day." And it will be.

Here's to all those girls who used to be his number one;
The ones who waited all night for him to call, only to check the caller ID the next morning and be disappointed.
The ones who made it through that bitter break up, dried your own tears, and moved on with your life, only to have him walk back in it months later like nothing ever happened.
Those of you who cried on the first day you talked again because you knew exactly where this phone call was going.
The ones who listened to him say, I only want to be your friend, one day, and the next, listened to him say how much he loves and misses you. We deserve something, and this is our tribute.
Here's to the ones that waited for him, hoping that maybe this time, he was different, hoping that maybe people really do change.
We listened to our friends tell us that we were stupid for even thinking about giving him another chance, caught crap from our parents and even snuck around to see him for while.
We went through the great stage with no fights all over again.
We started this out thinking it would be just friends, and ended up falling in love with him again.
We wanted nothing more in the world than to hear him tell us he loved us too, that even though things were bad in the past, they would be different this time.
And when we finally heard it, it was like we were dreaming.
This is for us.
Here's to the ones who believed what he said,
sat around all over again waiting for a phone call that might come in a few hours, or a few days.
Here's for the tears cried and dried all over again.
We wanted so desperately to believe that he was really busy, he couldn't possibly call us at that moment, or even that he fell asleep early.

We trained ourselves to believe the lies because we wanted to believe we had found the one for us.
We learned to settle for someone who didn't treat us the way we should be treated.
Here's for the ones who did their hair and make up and put on their prettiest earrings, only to hear him say that he couldn't see us today.
The ones who never believed it when people told us there might be someone else.
We just couldn't believe that he could do this to us again.
This is for those great girls, who loved him more than words can say, and took him back no matter what happened
last time because they couldn't bear to look back on their lives one day and wonder "what if".
This are for the girls that stayed up all night long listening to him whine about an ex girlfriend who cheated on him, and cried during the entire conversation.
The ones who hoped he would realize that he deserved better, that he deserved us.
When he said that he loved you, but he was in love with her, he didn't mean it.
This is for the ones that held on to something that was never there to begin with.
This is for us girls, who somehow managed to get him to forget about her, and get him to tell us that he was in love with us again,
only to have him tell us three weeks later that "things were going too fast, he needs time."
Here's to the girls who couldn't cry to their friends because of how stupid they felt.

The ones who held it all in when things came crumbling to pieces again.
This are for the ones who couldn't bear to even tell their mom what was going on, for fear of an "I told you so."
The ones that could just tell that they had made a mistake ever allowing him into their hearts, and their dreams again.
We knew that we deserved better the entire time, that we deserved a guy who would call when he said he was going to, one that would come see us whenever he got the chance, one that would really care about us.
We just wanted the one that we loved like that.
Here's for the ones that finally realized that he never gave a shit about them.Here's for the time that he broke your heart again.

This is for those days spent trying to hold back the tears, and the tears that turned into anger, then disappointment.
Here's for us girls who finally realized that we deserve better.
This is for those confusing days, when you miss him, and want nothing more than to hear his voice, or feel his arms around your waist.
Stay strong, and remember that relationships are like broken glass, sometimes it's better to leave it alone rather than try to put the pieces back together and get hurt.
Remember the times you cried, and how long it took you to even be able to look at another guy like that.
When "your song" comes on the radio, turn the station.
When the day comes that he realizes what a mistake he made and tries calling, turn your phone off.
When he tries coming to your house, don't answer the door.
Think of the broken promises, and the lies, the manipulation and the tears, the wasted moments and staying up all night wondering where the fuck he was.
Think of how your heart used to jump when your phone would vibrate in the middle of the night, and how it fell to your stomach when you saw it wasn't him, and realized that once again, he hadn't called when he said he was going to.
One day, you'll find a guy who's worth all the tears, but he won't make you cry.
You may think that you'll never care about someone like you did that guy that you always ran back to, but you will.
It's gonna hurt like crap, and it's going to need time to heal, but the point is, it will heal.

If you drink - your being bad
If he drinks - he's popular, and its just with the guys, so who cares?
If you sleep around - your a slut
If he sleeps around - he's definitely cool, and it was a mistake?
If you don't love him - he will try to lure you in
If you love him - he will leave you, cuz yur attatched
If you lecture him - your being a bitch
If he lectures you - he's showing he cares
If your quiet - your pms ing
If he's quiet - he's going through rough times
If you argue with him - you started it
If he argues with you - you started it
If you don't fuck him - you don't love him
If you do - your easy
If you tell him your problems - your complaining
If you don't - you don't trust him
If you fuck up - your a whore and it's over
If he fucks up - he was drunk, he loves you

FINE!This is the word women use to end an argument when
they are right and you need to shut up.

FIVE MINUTES
If she is getting dressed, this is half an hour. Five minutes is only five minutes
if you have just been given 5 more minutes to watch the game before helping
around the house.

NOTHING
This is the calm before the storm. This means "something," and you should
be on your toes. Arguments that begin with 'Nothing' usually end in "Fine"

GO AHEAD
This is a dare, not permission. Don't do it.

LOUD SIGH
This is not actually a word, but is a non-verbal statement often misunderstood
by men. A "Loud Sigh" means she thinks you are an idiot and wonders why
she is wasting her time standing here and arguing with you over "Nothing"

THAT'S OKAY
This is one of the most dangerous statements that a woman can make to a
man. "That's Okay" means that she wants to think long and hard before
deciding how and when you will pay for your mistake.

THANKS
A woman is thanking you. Do not question it or faint. Just say you're welcome.

WHATEVER
It's a woman's way of saying FUCK YOU.

It's the worst feeling in the world to love & hate someone all at the same time.
& it's hard to watch things change when all you want is for them to stay the
same. It's crazy when you want to let go, but you keep holding on, & you want
to move on, but you're stuck right where you started. When feelings come & go
& you can't decide what you want. When you have so many things to say, but
you don't know where to start. When you want them in your life so bad, but all
you can do is push them farther & farther away. It's so hard to think back to
how things used to be & look at it now & realize that things are different, & they
may never be the same. You tell yourself it's not worth it, but if it really didn't
matter, you wouldn't spend so much time thinking about it.