I am not single, not looking. I dont care if you have lots of money, a nice car, a big house or a monster wanker, or think you can make me tremble all over. I am happy the way things are and unless you wanna "just chat:" about every day things... GO AWAY! I dont cyber, I dont talk dirty, and I dont wanna come over or call you. And yes I have a cam... no I will not let you look.. not even for a second ... and I don't want to see yours.
There are enough cyberhos on here to fullfill those needs.. GO FIND ONE OF THEM! And yes... I dont mind younger guys... but I am NOT a babysitter... half my age +7=25... you younger than that.. dont bother.
I am not interested in friends with benefits, casual sex, or having a boytoy, cyber, cam or phone sex. Just because a person looks good and has pictures that look sexy does not mean they are after meaningless sex.
I AM interested in someone who can keep my attention for more than a few minutes, can carry on a decent intelligent conversation using proper English and good spelling(there IS a difference between your and you're). Pl3as3 do n0t TyPe LyK Dis... I will not respond. I am not all that great at volunteering information about myself, but I am more than willing to answer most questions you can ask.
If you start a conversation with me and I don't respond.. it's either because I am too busy to respond, or not interested. If you start a conversation with me.. don't ask me if I have any questions for you... if I did.. I probably would have messaged them to you. If you initiate the conversation.. don't expect me to carry it after we exchange our hi's.
I enjoy reading , chatting to friends, playing pool, sleeping through movies and listening to music. My musical tastes are quite diverse from classical to death metal, but I abhor gangsta rap and country, so if your idea of a good time is two steppin or hanging out at the Standard we PROBABLY won't get along.
The longer I stay on here , the more likely it is I will add more things in here about the things I like and don't like. I realize that this may sound really negative, but I would rather be straightforward and save myself and the rest of you a bunch of wasted time. In general I am quite a positive person but have dealt with enough BS on dating sites to know what I am NOT looking for. I prefer you have a pic... I have a few and fair is fair. IF the only pics you have are of you holding a beer or holding a woman with a scribbled out face...tsk tsk(and put your hats on straight, boys!)
For all of you out there who have comments about my age, or my job or whatever, stick it. I am a full time mom and work full time as a Pharmacy Technician . I am your legal drug dealer (the prescription kind).
If you think I am a bitch... you're probably right.
I used to Admin for the site, so if you have any questions or concerns, feel free to give me a shout and I will answer to the best of my abilities, or make sure someone who CAN answer your question does.
I read this today and it struck a chord with me... I think this may be something I should learn to live by:
There once was a little boy who had a bad temper. His Father gave him a bag of nails and told him that every time he lost his temper, he must hammer a nail into the back of the fence.
The first day the boy had driven 37 nails into the fence. Over the next few weeks, as he learned to control anger, the number of nails hammered daily gradually dwindled down. He discovered it was easier to hold his temper than to drive those nails into the fence.
Finally the day came when the boy didn't lose his temper at all. He told his father about it and the father suggested that the boy now pull out one nail for each day that he was able to hold his temper.
The days passed and the young boy was finally able to tell his father that all the nails were gone. The father took his son by the hand and led him to the fence. He said, "You have done well, my son, but look at the holes in the fence. The fence will never be the same. When you say things in anger, they leave a scar just like this one. You can put a knife in a man and draw it out. It won't matter how many times you say I'm sorry, the wound is still there."
A verbal wound is as bad as a physical one. Friends are very rare jewels, indeed. They make you smile and encourage you to succeed. They lend an ear, they share words of praise and they always want to open their hearts to us.
Please forgive me if I have ever left a hole in your fence.
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To my true friends out there: Sorry about the holes.
