I am not single, not looking. I dont care if you have lots of money, a nice car, a big house or a monster wanker, or think you can make me tremble all over. I am happy the way things are and unless you wanna "just chat:" about every day things... GO AWAY! I dont cyber, I dont talk dirty, and I dont wanna come over or call you. And yes I have a cam... no I will not let you look.. not even for a second ... and I don't want to see yours.
There are enough cyberhos on here to fullfill those needs.. GO FIND ONE OF THEM! And yes... I dont mind younger guys... but I am NOT a babysitter... half my age +7=25... you younger than that.. dont bother.


I am not interested in friends with benefits, casual sex, or having a boytoy, cyber, cam or phone sex. Just because a person looks good and has pictures that look sexy does not mean they are after meaningless sex.

I AM interested in someone who can keep my attention for more than a few minutes, can carry on a decent intelligent conversation using proper English and good spelling(there IS a difference between your and you're). Pl3as3 do n0t TyPe LyK Dis... I will not respond. I am not all that great at volunteering information about myself, but I am more than willing to answer most questions you can ask.


If you start a conversation with me and I don't respond.. it's either because I am too busy to respond, or not interested. If you start a conversation with me.. don't ask me if I have any questions for you... if I did.. I probably would have messaged them to you. If you initiate the conversation.. don't expect me to carry it after we exchange our hi's.
I enjoy reading , chatting to friends, playing pool, sleeping through movies and listening to music. My musical tastes are quite diverse from classical to death metal, but I abhor gangsta rap and country, so if your idea of a good time is two steppin or hanging out at the Standard we PROBABLY won't get along.

The longer I stay on here , the more likely it is I will add more things in here about the things I like and don't like. I realize that this may sound really negative, but I would rather be straightforward and save myself and the rest of you a bunch of wasted time. In general I am quite a positive person but have dealt with enough BS on dating sites to know what I am NOT looking for. I prefer you have a pic... I have a few and fair is fair. IF the only pics you have are of you holding a beer or holding a woman with a scribbled out face...tsk tsk(and put your hats on straight, boys!)

For all of you out there who have comments about my age, or my job or whatever, stick it. I am a full time mom and work full time as a Pharmacy Technician . I am your legal drug dealer (the prescription kind).


If you think I am a bitch... you're probably right.

I used to Admin for the site, so if you have any questions or concerns, feel free to give me a shout and I will answer to the best of my abilities, or make sure someone who CAN answer your question does.

I read this today and it struck a chord with me... I think this may be something I should learn to live by:

There once was a little boy who had a bad temper. His Father gave him a bag of nails and told him that every time he lost his temper, he must hammer a nail into the back of the fence.

The first day the boy had driven 37 nails into the fence. Over the next few weeks, as he learned to control anger, the number of nails hammered daily gradually dwindled down. He discovered it was easier to hold his temper than to drive those nails into the fence.

Finally the day came when the boy didn't lose his temper at all. He told his father about it and the father suggested that the boy now pull out one nail for each day that he was able to hold his temper.

The days passed and the young boy was finally able to tell his father that all the nails were gone. The father took his son by the hand and led him to the fence. He said, "You have done well, my son, but look at the holes in the fence. The fence will never be the same. When you say things in anger, they leave a scar just like this one. You can put a knife in a man and draw it out. It won't matter how many times you say I'm sorry, the wound is still there."

A verbal wound is as bad as a physical one. Friends are very rare jewels, indeed. They make you smile and encourage you to succeed. They lend an ear, they share words of praise and they always want to open their hearts to us.

Please forgive me if I have ever left a hole in your fence.
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To my true friends out there: Sorry about the holes.

Date: Mon Nov 12, 2007 5:47 pm
Subject: No Subject
dam your hot do u have a msn bab

Date: Mon Nov 12, 2007 8:27 pm
Subject: hey
hey how are u very nicelooking so nice to meet u sorry for my pic but i have only at my msn so im gona leave my email is *******@hotmail.com so if u want add me ok bye

From:
Date: Mon Nov 12, 2007 7:57 pm
Subject: No Subject
hey not my file, 18 m canada, that out of the way wanna see my cock



Date: Mon Nov 5, 2007 2:37 pm
Subject: No Subject
Hi there. i operate an adult video production company and we are lookin for sexy mature women who are very open minded for shoots in Vancouver. Travel and accomodation is included and up to $5000 can be made in a weekend. interested?


Date: Thu Nov 1, 2007 9:47 pm
Subject: this pic hot and soft
hey how r u. nice to be ur friend. u look like and goddess with a charming face and high sex appeal. like to chat with u do u have msn or yahooo messenger??


Date: Fri Nov 2, 2007 5:32 pm
Subject: hi
hello pretty how are you ? im soufien, i find you cute and beautiful, i wanna like to chat with you sometimes as friends if you would take care hope hear from you soon .

Friends
*LiNzBo*-You are about the coolest chick I know even though you can’t drive a standard
AchillesQ-Phil… the guy who is writing a novel and borrowed my daughter’s name
alwaysthat- Shauna.. we have had our differences but all in all you are cool.
angelicdemon- Joelle… haven’t talked to you in a good while
Azrael - Jade- soon to be neighbor! YAY
brtnbrdrchck-- Melina #2- can't wait to hear you sing!
cantgohome- I got cut from your 60k.. you never friends listed me back after you deleted all your friends..
chicabean420 –Kristi- we will have to do the Tims thing again soon!!
Coppercat- Melissa- My suburbs buddy!.. Thanks to you I get to go there on occasion.
cory1975-
countrytime-- Matty you make me laugh!
CrazyDriver- TEEEEJ-hi!
DarkestCave- Jody-my youngest and coolest buddy!!
DeadMonkeys- wanna cyber??
DonovanMD-fellow hard ass UT mods unite!!
Dustyplayer- oh the memories!
emaling-Ember- YAY for UT regs!!
Epik- Mike… one sexy beast!
Eqwaz1on-Wade..
Floor—Jimmy ,we still have to go on our date!!!
GhettoFab-Tylor.. one of my bestest buds here…miss talking to you !!
GodofAngels- Mark, even though you are not the greatest speller, you still mod pics like an animal!
gooutthere-Dan… another Suburbs buddy… good times.. good times, thanks for driving our drunk asses home.
H-Bomb- Heath… what can I say about Heath… a lot.. but I won’t . Awaiting your next picture story!!
JohnM-OMGOMG.. John sat in my chair.. I am never cleaning it again
Johnny-O-that guy with the nice car
kipparoo- Kim.. fellow UT mod!!
Korrin_ Matt- the guy who knows everything about legal stuff ! SMOKIN"!!!
kwikfix-- Tom.. the guy who pinged Timo in the head with the airhockey puck
Lethe- Chris… fellow Opeth fan… whodda thunk
M519- Abi… love you girl!
Manchoo- Best Hair EVAR!!
Mel- she’s small… and seems scary.. but she is really a big sweety
Mr.NiceOnIce- Stephane.. Andrea says “HI OMG what a hotty!!”
NonSpecific- Steve- the best hugger in the world!
RealityGurl- Kelly .. wherever you are
robdavy--RonGravy- Yeah.. you peeeetofile… bring me some crumpets in aloomineeyum foil!!
smarties- Haven’t seen you in AGES!!
smeigel- Mik.. nothing can describe Mik. If it weren’t for Mik, I wouldn’t be where I am today… stuck in front of my freaking computer for 8 hours a day typing away on this site.. Thanks Buddy!!
SoccerGurl- You +Are=you’re
stonesgurl-Angie… my fellow Old person!!
Tay-Tay-another UT mod..
Timo- My idol… you deserve nothing but our utmost respect and devotion for creating such a haven for us geeks!! The next Bill Gates friends… mark my words!!
x.Katy.x- next UT mod! Thanks for keeping that place in good running order!!



And to all the users who have given me lots of things to do.. whether it was to ban them, deal with their complaints, ehlp them out.. or just chat with... thanks for the fun times!!