When a GIRL is quiet ... millions of things are running in her mind. When a GIRL is not arguing ... she is thinking deeply. When a GIRL looks at u with eyes full of questions ... she is wondering how long you will be around. When a GIRL answers " I'm fine " after a few seconds ... she is not at all fine.

When a GIRL stares at you ... she is wondering why you are lying. When a GIRL lays on your chest ... she is wishing for you to be hers forever. When a GIRL wants to see you everyday... she wants to be pampered. When a GIRL says " I love you " ... she means it. When a GIRL says " I miss you " ... no one in this world can miss you more than that.

Life only comes around once make sure u spend it with the right person .... Find a guy ... who calls you beautiful instead of hot. who calls you back when you hang up on him. who will stay awake just to watch you sleep. Wait for the guy who ... kisses your forehead. Who wants to show you off to the world when you are in your sweats. Who holds your hand in front of his friends. Who is constantly reminding you of how much he cares about you and how lucky he is to have you. Who turns to his friends and says, " That's her!! "

when your in love with a man
he can make you feel high
so high you just be in outer space
but a man can also make you feel so low
real low and he can keep you there
keep you down if you let him
dont even worry about feeling used
everyone gets used
men use women and women use men
just face the fact that your going to get used
if you feel so used
you aint got nothing left
if the man aint giving you no act right
the energy you need to love his ass
even when hes acting like a batard
you need to let it go
if you aint got nothing
to give yourself or your baby
you wont have it to give him][/size][/color]

When you laugh, I will smile with you.
When you cry, I will wipe away your tears.
When anger burns within your soul, I will still be there...if only to listen.
When you need to be alone, I will let you be; I will leave you only for a little while.
When you are lonely, I will hold you.
When you are hurt, I will try to take away your pain, but only if you let me.
When you fall, I will catch you. Trust me; that's all I ask.
When you feel like you have no one, you will still have me.
When you lose your strength, I will stand by you. Don't give up.
When you are confused, and when everything you try to do just seems all wrong, all you have to do is call my name. I will be there.
When you want to leave, I will open up my Hand. But never forget that my arms are wide open and ready for you when you are ready.
When your heart is broken, I will help you put back the pieces.
When you are ready, just say when

1] Who are you?
[2] Are we friends?
[3] When and how did we meet?
[4] How have I affected you?
[5] What do you think of me?
[6] What's the fondest memory you have of me?
[7] How long do you think we will be friends or enemies?
[8] Do you love me?
[9] Have I ever hurt you?
[10] Would you hug me?
[11] Would you kiss me?
[12] Would you um....yah...lol....wit me?
[13] Are we close?
[14] Emotionally, what stands out?
[15] Do you wish I was cooler?
[16] On a scale of 1-10, how nice am I?
[17] Give me a nickname and explain why you picked it.
[18] Am I loveable?
[19] How long have you known me?
[20] Describe me in one word.
[21] What was your first impression?
[22] Do you still think that way about me now?
[23] What do you think my weakness is?
[24] Do you think that I am wierd?
[25] What about me makes you happy?
[26] What about me makes you sad?
[27] What reminds you of me?
[28] What's something you would change about me?
[29] How well do you know me?
[30] Ever wanted to tell me something but couldn't?
[31] Do you think I would kill someone?
[33] Who else reminds you of me?
[32] If you I told you I had 3 weeks to live what would we do?
[34] If I died would you cry?
[35] When was the last time we fought?
[36] Are you going to put this on your journal and see what I say about you?
[37] What song reminds you of me ?
[38] If we where going on a date where would you take me?
[39] What is in your opinion, my best asset?
[40] Do you think I will get married?

In life woman always have a negative impression on men. Mostly we gt this impression because well they lie, steal and cheat. But is there ever such a thing as a man changing? I have actually found out by my own personal expereince that yes indeed there is a GOD and that they can change. Now I can not say for sure if they really are truley genuine but I was so shocked when I found out that maybe this individual did some soul searching and realized what life was really about. Now hopefully he doesn't turn back to his "gangster" ways but only time will tell.

This is a response to my gurl's latest blog entry. If you want to check it out it's ..satisfied*..

Gurl you speak words of wisdom and truth for us woman who wait for the calls that don't come and the visits that never seem to happen either. It seems that woman all over the world lilke to think that things are better and greater when they are in love but when those words come out that is when everything seems to change. when a woman tells a man she loves him then things change. When a woman says " I LOVE YOU" it's like the man thinks he has a hold on you. When woman say they love a man they may see changes in their partner. this is when the male ego is a little to big for their head. Men may start lying, and cheating, the funny thing is that they think you can get away with it when in all honesty girls we can't let them get away with it anymore. It seems that the 3 words that are suppose to be magical are turning into another saying. We need to start putting our foot down and start standing up for our selves.I don't hat elove but I think that alot of people are misunderstanding what the meaning of love is.