Here's to all the girls who used to be his number one. The ones who waited all night for him to call, only to check the caller ID the next morning & be disappointed.
We deserve something, and this is our tribute.
Here's to the ones that took him back, hoping that maybe this time, he was different, hoping that maybe people really do change. We listened to our friends tell us that we were stupid for even thinking about giving him another chance, caught crap from our parents, & even snuck around to see him for while. We went through the great stage with no fights all over again. We started this out thinking it would be just friends, & ended up falling in love with him again. We wanted nothing more in the world than to hear him tell us he loved us too, that even though things were bad in the past, they would be different this time. This is for us.
We trained ourselves to believe the lies because we wanted to believe we had found the one for us. We learned to settle for someone who didn't treat us the way we should be treated.
Here's for the ones who did their hair and make up & put on their prettiest earrings, only to hear him say that he couldn't see us today.
The ones who never believed it when people told us there might be someone else. We just couldn't believe that he could do this to us again.
This is for those great girls who loved him more than words can say, & took him back no matter what happened last times because they couldn't bear to look back on their lives one day & wonder "what if".
This is for the girls that stayed up all night long listening to him whine about an ex girlfriend, & cried during the entire conversation.
The ones who hoped he would realize that he deserved better, that he deserved us.
This is for the ones that held on to something that was never there to begin with.
Here's to the girls who couldn't cry to their friends because of how stupid they felt.
The ones who held it all in when things came crumbling to pieces again.
This is for the ones who couldn't bear to even tell their mom what was going on, for fear of an "I told you so." The ones that could just tell that they had made a mistake ever allowing him into their hearts & their dreams again.
Here's for the ones that finally realized that he never gave a crap about them.
Here's for the times that he broke your heart again & again.
This is for those days spent trying to hold back the tears, & the tears that turned into anger, then disappointment.
Here's for us girls who finally realized that we deserve better.
This is for those confusing days, when you miss him & want nothing more than to hear his voice, or feel his arms around your waist. Stay strong and remember that relationships are like broken glass; sometimes it's better to leave it alone rather than try to put the pieces back together & get hurt.
Remember the times you cried & how long it took you to even be able to look at another guy like that.
When 'your song' comes on the radio, change the station. When the day comes that he realizes what a mistake he made & tries calling, turn your phone off.When he tries coming to your house, don't answer the door.
Think of the broken promises, and the lies, the manipulation & the tears, the wasted moments and staying up all night wondering where the hell he was.
Think of how your heart used to jump when your phone would vibrate in the middle of the night & how it fell to your stomach when you saw it wasn't him, and realized that once again, he hadn't called when he said he was going to. One day you'll find a guy who's worth all the tears, but he won't make you cry. You may think that you'll never care about someone like you did that guy that you always ran back to, but you will.
This is for those girls who fell back in love with him, only to get hurt all over again
