well, my name is Huy(wee) Nguyen and i am a current student and athlete at lakehead university, located in Thunder Bay, Ont. I am on the wrestling team and i have won nationals on numerous occasions and am currently enrolled in My business degree hoping to one day own my own bar in calgary, Ab. But when i am off the mat, i love to just buckle down to that bar and have fun with friends, i believe it isn't a fun night if you cant just let loose and have fun. Be your true self with no fears. dancing is a big one for me. i love a girl that can dance my styles, from 2 stepping to any type of dancing that involves dips and turns, not this whole gridding all the time, it gets boring. i like all types of music and have a large range of friends, from asians, to wrestlers, to athletes, to Misc. I am a sweetguy at times but i have be told i over analysis things and that i care too much. i also worry too much, and that i fall hard, but I am a positive guy that is driven towards his goals, but i find that i always have spare time to spend with someone that is special. i like msn, but i prefer the phone. but face book right now is number one

"" Of course, you can't unfry an egg, but there's no law against
thinking about it.

If I had my life to live over, I would try to make more mistakes. I
would relax.
I would be sillier than I have been this trip. I would be less
hygienic. I would go more places. I would climb more mountains and
swim more rivers. I would eat more ice-cream and less spinach. I
would
have more actual troubles and fewer imaginary troubles.

You see, I have been one of those fellows who live prudently, hour
after hour, day after day. Oh, I have had my moments. But if I had it
to do over again, I would have more of them - a lot more. I never go
anywhere without a thermometer, a map, a raincoat and a parachute. If
I had it to do over, I would travel lighter.

If I had my life to live over, I would start going barefoot a little
earlier in the spring and stay that way a little later in the fall. I
would have more dogs. I would keep later hours. I would have more
sweethearts. I would fish more. I would ride more merry-go-rounds. I
would go to more circuses.

In a world in which practically everybody else seems to be
consecrated
to the gravity of the situation, I would rise to glorify the levity
of
the situation."

"LIVE WITH AN ATTITUDE OF GRATITUDE by Glen Hopkins

Imagine for a moment one of those nights when you just can't fall asleep and you have to get up early the next morning for a very important meeting of which you are the keynote speaker. Your alarm clock goes off early in the morning waking you from what little sleep you had. You stumble out of bed, have a quick shower, grab a coffee and some toast, and off you go to fight the traffic on the way to work.

Does that sound like the start of a terrible day? Most would answer 'yes'. Few people however, would answer, 'no'. These are the people, who are in my opinion blessed with a gift. A gift that determines how they view their life. These people live with 'an attitude of gratitude'. For them, the situation described could be worse. Much worse. For example, think of the man who doesn't have a bed, let alone a roof to over his head. When he is awoken from what little sleep he is able to get, it is by the rain falling on his cold body. He too stumbles to his feet and begins his journey to work in his bare feet. His work is in the field of survival. He searches though garbage cans for scraps of half-rotten food to eat and odd bits of clothes to keep him warm.

The purpose of this example is to illustrate that we all have so much to be grateful for. Even in times when it seems that nothing could be worse, there is always a reason to be grateful. And when you feel a sense of gratitude, you feel a sense of happiness and content. My challenge to you today is to learn to look for the good in every situation and live with 'an attitude of gratitude'.

I assure you, if you were the fellow searching for food in garbage cans you too could find things to be grateful for. You just have to look hard enough and 'open your eyes' to what is around you. You have to focus on what's good in your life, not what's bad.

"I once was distraught because I had no shoes, until I met a man who had no feet." - Unknown

Life works in mysterious ways. Time and time again there have been stories of people who are in a dire strait yet they are found helping others who are experiencing greater turmoil. This is because once you have helped someone in greater need than yourself, you always feel better. You feel better because you have helped another human being, and this forces you to change your mindset from focusing on your problems to focusing on their solutions.

Always focus on the solution, not the problem and live with an attitude of gratitude! Mother Teresa was a primary example of this phenomenon. Her entire life revolved around helping others in need. As a result she experienced a great deal of love and self-satisfaction in her life.

I challenge you now to take a moment to think of five things in your life that you are grateful for today. For example, your friends, your family, your job, your sense of smell, touch, sight, and sound. The list can go on and on. Imagine what your life would be like without these things. Write them down on a piece of paper and really think about the things you are grateful for. You will be amazed at how great you will feel!

i think in every relationship, friends or girlfriends, it is the little things that mean the most. honesty is a must, trust is earn not just there, and communication and freedom is very important. i like dancing, being active, and just having fun, water sports is a must even tho i am not a great swimmer i love to cliff jump and wake board. drinking and partying is fun, i usually give 100 percent and it my surprise you how much i can drink but that is cause i dont like to give not my best...in everything. country music i love.

liars, heartbreakers, users, and mostly people with no manners....actually i have a very short threshold for stupid and incompitant people. i believe that everyone is born with some smart in them, use it, i admit i am not the smartest or even close to being that person but the way that people present themselves is very important. if you are either smart or good looking , please treat others with repect and realize your qualities. dont be a ***** and look down on others..."when i look up, i am not better then many, but when i look down, not many are better then i." but treat them with that respect and say plpease and thankyous. nothing bothers me more then when people dont have common basic logic and manners. "if you can;t improve silence, dont fill it."