toxicxlove - 23, Female, Port Coquitlam
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Some People Change.
Some people spend years by your side, picking up the pieces when you're world is falling apart and holding you high when you're feeling down. Some people are willing to lend an ear and share thoughtful advice without ever judging. With some people we share a bond, a friendship which others may not always approve of or understand, but regardless you have their back and in return they have yours. Sometimes, some people change. Sometimes that someone who was once so close to you transforms into someone so new, so different that you can't bare to watch. Sometimes people change into an entity they spend years claiming to despise with every fiber of their being. Sometimes people change into someone you can't understand, and therefore don't know anymore. Someone who claims their image, their financial privileges, their perception through others' eyes doesn't affect them, may give in and become someone distant, unknown and artificial. Sometimes you win, sometimes you loose, but the memories you once shared with that someone you once knew remain as footsteps in your heart, and hopefully thiers forever.

Some People Never Change.
Some people will spend their entire life refusing to acknowledge reality. Some people never open their minds and open their hearts to the feelings, opinions, opportunities, and lifestyles of others. Instead they spend their time inhaling and exhaling their lives away, resenting those who have made the effort to better themselves, and those who thrive off of success, self sufficiency and real life experiences without having to illegally medicate them all away. Some people never accept change around them, or that people do in fact need to change, grow, and shape themselves to advance and become successful. Some people cling to those around them and (possibly inadvertently) relentlessly bring them down into the depressing aura of semi-life they have created for themselves. Some people will never advance, never grow, never prosper until they accept reality and realize that those around them are not in fact out to get them, the proper tools have in fact been given to them, and the world is not the cruel place they have convinced themselves it is. Sometimes some people just aren't right for you. Sometimes we need to forget about what we want and realize what is best for ourselves while we still can. Sometimes we've done all we can, and although we can look back as fondly on our time spent with some people, deep down we know we are truly better off.

Change is inevitable.
Whether it be within ourselves or others, or in the world around us. Sometimes those we hold dear change and grow to succeed with us, and sometimes they chose a seperate path. Sometimes we need to acept that people aren't always going to change in the ways that we want them to. Sometimes we need to let go of what once was and focus on what lays ahead. Life is an adventure, learn from what has happened, never regret anything because at some point it was what you wanted, and embrace with open arms what the future brings.

"We have class, dignity and responsibility, and the life we crave is success and happiness, we are different, we want to feel the pain of life and have no regrets, not smoke them away. We have courage to live our lives without easy ways to forget, and we have respect for our bodies to stay healthy and youthful for many years to come. the only harm we can do is a wicked headache after a long night of pizza and beer."

Jennifer Holmes (FourSixFour)
My best friend, my heart
 

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