im glad you took into consideration everything i said to you and wrote it all down haha

yes I totally agree with you, it is not fair at all, but if girls do decide to sleep around, which doesn't neccesarily make them a slut they must be prepared that most people won't see or accept this, and the girl will be labeled, and there is not much she can really do about it because there are a lot of dicks out there. but making the choice she has made she must also except the consequences. If she is truly alright with her actions and thinks that there is nothing wrong with what she did than thats great! and she didn't do anything wrong and the people that really matter most to her should see that and they won't label her, but there will be labeling and false judgements made and the people that make those judgments should not matter if she is truly okay with her actions. I think it is so much easier for guys because we don't have to worry about false accusations and judgment because in our eyes and probably in the eyes of our friends it is the girl that did the wrong, which clouds our own gulit and allows us to continue using women with no remorse and passing blame and judgment to the women that we have objectified, just to build up our own ego. This is wrong and unfair but it will continue and there is not much we can do about it but you have to realise that all guys are not like this.